Should you give up things for your boyfriend because he doesn't like it?

My boyfriend says that he loves me more than anything and that i have complete control over him, and he has control over me..


he says that if i really love him, i'll give up hanging out with friends and wearing cute clothes and stop talking to other guys, because i know how bad it hurts him. when he said that i thought it made sense. because i would never want to make him sad if i knew that i didn't have to.





is he right?Should you give up things for your boyfriend because he doesn't like it?
When your young. As yourself. There is a lot of insecurities. The thing here is it boils down to TRUST. And if you don't have that. Everything else falls apart. Sooner or later you end up resenting your mate, because you feel as though you have lost yourself and everything, because you wanted to make THEM happy. But what about what YOU want? Is that even important to you. Yes, there are some friends you can do without. But no one should have complete control over YOUR life. Its NEVER a healthy thing. We all change as we get older, our views, our beliefs, many things, no one stays the same. That is part of growing up. And when you are older, your gonna realize what the hell you were thinking to actually allow someone to control your life. You have a mother and father for a reason. You don't need another one.Should you give up things for your boyfriend because he doesn't like it?
A bit demanding... it really shouldn't be hurting him. I'm sensitive, and it usually doesn't bother me, except for the hanging with guys. That makes me VERY jealous.
ooo hunny u have a lot to learn....IF he loved u why would he want you to stop talking to ya friends and other people its ok to were cute clothes to look nice for ya self u can talk to other guys on friend level whats the problem srry girlfriend but your boyfriend is bugged out %26amp; no he is not right and dnt be a fool and listen to him nobody schould have control of nobody but ya self and im just keeping it real
he cant stop you from seeing your friends, wearing wat you wana wear, or talking to other girls hes not sad hes jealous (one of the seven deadly sins btw) i dont think he really loves you if he holds you on such a short leash


sorry its kinda true
no because you have the right to hang out with your friends. what if you end up marrying him? will he let you spend time with your family and life long friends? will he let you work at places that have other guys there. it's not like you have feelings for them. maybe he's worried that you might find someone better than him which is really a trust issue because if you aren't able to be free sometimes, then he's not showing you the proper trust a guy should show to his girlfriend.
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no, you should never change for someone. if he doesn't like what you wear or your friends, then he doesn't really like you. and it seems like he gets jealous easily, with the thing about him not wanting you to talking to other dudes. maybe you should show that he's the only guy for you without giving anything up.