Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do you bring up things that bother you with your boyfriend?

i am not a jealous girlfriend, but his closeness with his female friends make me very uncomfortable. we have been dating over 2 years, he has given me reasons to not trust him but i don't want to come off as though i am accusing him of anything because right now- i feel that he is being faithful just i'm not ok with him and some of if the girls AT THIS POINT IN TIME. so how do i address this?How do you bring up things that bother you with your boyfriend?
Does he go out with these women 1-on-1? If so, you are asking for trouble being with him. If he's involving you in outings and up-front about in what ways he's friends with them, then you might be able to cut him slack. The bottom line is, however, you've got to draw the line somewhere, and spending alone time with other females is just not going to fly.





I understand it's easy for me to say that since it's not my problem, but the simple fact is that you can't expect to change people like that.How do you bring up things that bother you with your boyfriend?
Hi,


Honesty is usually the best strategy. Tell him you love him very much and that there is something that bothers you. Tell him his closeness with his female friends makes you very uncomfortable. Tell him you trust him, but you're not ok with what some of the girls may have on their mind. Tell him you want to keep him all to yourself, and want him to know that his love means everything to you. Keep reassuring him. And don't allow the girls to intimidate you - he is with you! Best Wishes!
It may just be a misunderstanding. I think you are worrying to much and just being insecure. If he hasnt cheated on you with them, or flirted with them, then everything is going great. Everything is fine. Trust the man, and when he screws up, you let him know. How do you get along with his female friends? If you do get along with them, try to get to know them a little better. Its VERY relieving in a relationship when a man's girlfriend can get along with his friends.
hang around more guys, he will have the same reaction and he will want you to stop. mabey that will open his eyes
JUST SIT DOWN WITH HIM AND HAVE A CONVERSATION AND TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH HIS CLOSENESS WITH HIS FEMAILE FRIENDS AND IF HE YELLS OR GETS PISSED JUST TELL HIM THAT HE HAS GIVEN YOU A REASON NOT TO TRUST HIM.
come straight up in tell him

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