So let's just say, you are bisexual.
Guy's Story
So you have a girlfriend that you love. But you become really attracted to this guy. So you end up making out with him and seeing him while you are still dating your girlfriend.
Girl's Story
So you have a boyfriend that you love. But you become really attracted to this girl. So you end up making out with her and seeing her while you are still dating your boyfriend.
Now onto the questions...
- Girls, would you be mad if your boyfriend was cheating on you for a guy?
- Guys, would you be mad if your girlfriend was cheating on you for a guy?
- Girls, how do you think your boyfriend would handle this?
- Guys, how do you think your girlfriend would handle this?
- Girls, what would you think about this whole thing?
- Guys, what would you think about this whole thing?
- Girls, would you find it hott if your boyfriend was making out with a guy?
- Guys, would you find it hott if your girlfriend was making out with a girl?
- And, would you break up with your partner?
No, this is not a real life situation. I really just want to see how both sexes would react to this situation.
Add any details.Cheating on your Partner?
1. Probably not just mad but confused and think you were gay.
2. ummm that's pretty dumb. of course I'd be mad. I'd be down right infuriated.
3. They'd probably break up with you.
4. ^^^ diddo
5. I'm sure any girl would probably feel upset, confused, lied to and cheated on.
6. ^^^ that's how I'd feel
7. I highly doubt it
8. If the girl was hot and she wasn't doing it behind my back I'd be cool with it.
Personly I wouldn't mind if my girlfriend fooled around with other girls as long as she didn't do it behind my back and I could at least watch. I wouldn't be cool if she fooled around with other guys, me aware of it or not.
And to your last question:
If my girlfriend was lying to me and messing around with other people behind my back, she's broken that trust. I'd break up with her. I might be cool with my girl getting naughty with other girls, just not behind my back. Its dishonest, disrespectful and destroys the trust of the relationship.
If you are with someone and you love them or at least respect their feelings, you should not fool around behind their back, even if you are attracted to someone else. If you can't control yourself, you shouldn't be in a committed relationship. That will just end badly.Cheating on your Partner?
1) Yes, I would be mad if he was cheating because the gender doesn't matter.
#2) I think that he would deny it at first, but then ask if I thought it was hott.
#3) I would think that the whole situation is wrong because he cheated but not because he is bisexual.
#4) No it absolutely would not be hott. I'm straight and I do NOT think that cheating on your girlfriend is hott wether it's with a guy or a girl.
#5) Yes, I would break up with him because if he decides to cheat on me, then he's not worth my time.
I'm a gay man- my point of view is that cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter whom it's with. But fantasizing, checking out others without touching is absolutely fine. If my companion saw someone checking me out, he'd take it as a compliment that He has good taste.
Would we break up after being together 30 years. Probably.
Cheating is a deal breaker for me, doesn't matter what the gender. They cheat I'm gone! BF making out with anyone would not be hot I'd be furious and betrayed and gone!!!!
I would not cheat. I will end a relationship if I am not satisfied. Cheating is unacceptable.
i going to answer all the girl question considering i am a girl!!!
1) noopeee i think that i would dump him the minute i figured out he was bi!!!
2) be upset at first but hes got his guy - -!!!!
3)IT WORNG!!!!!!
4)ummmm not really i would rather be the one he is kissing not some guy!!!!!!!!!!!
5) YESSS!!!!!!!
Cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter what sex the other person is because you still betrayed the relationship that you were supposed to be ';committed'; to.
Life is not a love story. Life is what you make it. You need to get a life so you will be able to make it, Bubba!
i would be confused and sad, actually.
i wouldn't find it hot.
and yeah. i would probably break up with him.
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Friday, August 20, 2010
Nail Care: How do you make your nails grow faster and stronger?
I have been bitting my nails for a while and im finally done hiding my hands all the time, i have really bad skin under my nails and its like gross and i hide my hands all the time. I have a boyfriend and im insecure to hold hands with him. I am 16 and im done with being shy and nervous about my hands, whenever it gets brought up i change the topic so quick.
I need advise on how to make them grow, thank you guys.Nail Care: How do you make your nails grow faster and stronger?
There are some clear nail polishes that are made to make your nails grow faster and protect them. If you have bad skin under your nails and it looks like an infection I would go see a Dr.Nail Care: How do you make your nails grow faster and stronger?
Using biotin pills to add as a part of your diet helps to make your nails grow fast and stronger, it also makes your hair stronger too :)
I need advise on how to make them grow, thank you guys.Nail Care: How do you make your nails grow faster and stronger?
There are some clear nail polishes that are made to make your nails grow faster and protect them. If you have bad skin under your nails and it looks like an infection I would go see a Dr.Nail Care: How do you make your nails grow faster and stronger?
Using biotin pills to add as a part of your diet helps to make your nails grow fast and stronger, it also makes your hair stronger too :)
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What would you do if your boyfriend acted like this?
what is going on with my boyfriend. i don't want to break up with him but he is really giving me a good reason too. me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 Weeks now, and he seems to have no space in his life for a girlfriend right now. but he keep telling me he does. he don't call me, text me or even see me. he then saw me once since we have been back together. he tells me he is busy doing something with his life, like im not. he always makes up some excuses on why i didn't hear form him all day or even in some days. he act like he is always to busy to make a phone call and say ';baby how you doing';? ';how was your day?'; he gets mad when i have to call restricted after not hearing form him in 2 days just for him to answer the phone. he gets mad and say im at work or im at school or even im driving. it is always a reason on why he didn't call me yesterday or return my phone call that day. i don't know what to do? should i leave him alone because obviously i don't fit into his life and i probably want since he talks bad about me when i mention that he needs to call me or text me sometimes.
i dont know what to do. he wanted me back in his life he called me for months to get back with him. He treats me like im not even his girlfriend. he never calls me and gets attitudes and talks bad towards me. im tired of this. we had the same problems 4 months ago when him and i were talking. i dont know what else to do. what should i do? i need adviceWhat would you do if your boyfriend acted like this?
Well if my boyfriend acted that way with me. Eventually i would get tired of it and fed up. And if he doesnt have time for me why should i make time for him. You should never make someone your priority if they only make you an option. If he's not treating You like a princess. Im sure there are other guys who wouldn't mind.What would you do if your boyfriend acted like this?
use your brain.
thats all the advice you need.
When i saw this question i couldn't help but answer 4 weeks ago i could totally relate and i talked to all my friends and tried to get help but all told me to just brake up with him and that's not what i wanted i had fell for a jerk and i was determined to make it work. I had dated my boyfriend in 8th grade for 3mths and i hated it we didn't have enough contact but he still made me happy when i was with him but oddly he broke it off we didn't even talk afterwords well when i started high school my friend said he had wanted to go to homecoming with me and she hooked it up. anyway we dated after homecoming for 4mths until i realized things weren't right he didn't call he always made excuses and he rarely picked up my calls and when he did he said he was busy. (sound familiar?) so after a lot of getting no where i decided to talk to him about one day i just piped up and said we need to talk there are things that weather u realize or not that hurt me and if your not willing to fix it then let me know i don't wanna brake up with you but i also don't wanna be with someone who wants me but doesn't have the time.
and it worked we've been happy since he realized that he had to change to keep me in his life and he did and i wish i had talked to him earlier. so know that Ive wrote this';book'; i hope something will help and bottom line if you love someone try to make it work don't just brake up its like running from the problem give the guy a chance no matter how undeserving he is.
you should lose his number and start looking for a guy that has time for you. because if you really like someone you make the time for them it only takes a minute to make a phone call there is 24 hours in a day if he can not find even one for you.it is because he is making time for someone else.trust the getting mad the excuses.the fact you have to call restricted to get him to answer your call.and you having to tell him he needs to call or text you please he only wanted you when he thought he could not have you .now that he knows he can the thrill is gone and you should be to.
i dont know what to do. he wanted me back in his life he called me for months to get back with him. He treats me like im not even his girlfriend. he never calls me and gets attitudes and talks bad towards me. im tired of this. we had the same problems 4 months ago when him and i were talking. i dont know what else to do. what should i do? i need adviceWhat would you do if your boyfriend acted like this?
Well if my boyfriend acted that way with me. Eventually i would get tired of it and fed up. And if he doesnt have time for me why should i make time for him. You should never make someone your priority if they only make you an option. If he's not treating You like a princess. Im sure there are other guys who wouldn't mind.What would you do if your boyfriend acted like this?
use your brain.
thats all the advice you need.
When i saw this question i couldn't help but answer 4 weeks ago i could totally relate and i talked to all my friends and tried to get help but all told me to just brake up with him and that's not what i wanted i had fell for a jerk and i was determined to make it work. I had dated my boyfriend in 8th grade for 3mths and i hated it we didn't have enough contact but he still made me happy when i was with him but oddly he broke it off we didn't even talk afterwords well when i started high school my friend said he had wanted to go to homecoming with me and she hooked it up. anyway we dated after homecoming for 4mths until i realized things weren't right he didn't call he always made excuses and he rarely picked up my calls and when he did he said he was busy. (sound familiar?) so after a lot of getting no where i decided to talk to him about one day i just piped up and said we need to talk there are things that weather u realize or not that hurt me and if your not willing to fix it then let me know i don't wanna brake up with you but i also don't wanna be with someone who wants me but doesn't have the time.
and it worked we've been happy since he realized that he had to change to keep me in his life and he did and i wish i had talked to him earlier. so know that Ive wrote this';book'; i hope something will help and bottom line if you love someone try to make it work don't just brake up its like running from the problem give the guy a chance no matter how undeserving he is.
you should lose his number and start looking for a guy that has time for you. because if you really like someone you make the time for them it only takes a minute to make a phone call there is 24 hours in a day if he can not find even one for you.it is because he is making time for someone else.trust the getting mad the excuses.the fact you have to call restricted to get him to answer your call.and you having to tell him he needs to call or text you please he only wanted you when he thought he could not have you .now that he knows he can the thrill is gone and you should be to.
What causes your boyfriend to be turned off by you, and other guys won't turn off?
My boyfriend started a new job and loves it. He gets very excitied when he talks about it. They always get off early %26amp; I have 2 pick him from work everyday b/c he is scared 2 drive in %26amp; out of Downtown. But during our text communication he can't make up his mind when I should pick him up from work. His duties are house 2 house oriented so he deals w/ people on a daily bases. I don't know the details of how the breaks %26amp; lunches work, %26amp; I rather not be bothered all day w/ details about his every move b/c I have a life and were human. But why since he started we havent been having sex at all, I dont even see him turned on or given me any attention!?! I asked him (not if he cheating) but ';What's up baby what else goes on through-out your day';? Response ';Nothing...with kisses %26amp; I love you's';...So it happens (sex) after this conversation but...not like usual somethng difffer or missing. Oh but the next day after he injurys his self %26amp; penis %26amp; pants torned!?! OMG! Men tell me what is up?What causes your boyfriend to be turned off by you, and other guys won't turn off?
LOL, I think you know what is up just as much as us guys.What causes your boyfriend to be turned off by you, and other guys won't turn off?
He simply needs a pair.
LOL, I think you know what is up just as much as us guys.What causes your boyfriend to be turned off by you, and other guys won't turn off?
He simply needs a pair.
Is this girl playing games with me? What should I do?
I started to see this girl like 4 months ago. Its been on and off all this time, one minute shes all nice and affectionate and we get along great. She told me she didnt want a bf when we 1st began talking and I was cool with that. We began to get feelings for each other really quickly though and have struggled with what to do. I began treating her more like my GF and she got upset and told me she doesnt want to be in a situation like that right now. She likes her freedom and not have to report or check in with anyone.
I told her we cant be friends since we have hooked up and shared alot of things with each other and its hard to just see her as that right now, so i walked away and didnt talk to her for a while...she began to get lonely and not get the attention she was used to getting by me and started texting and calling me again saying she missed me and wanted to be cool with me still talk...i agreed and we had a good talk on that were not ';friends'; and were not a ';couple'; but something more than that cause of how we are with each other and our feelings that we have. So i began to do my thing and still talk to her but not like before. She began to pout and say i didnt treat the same and treated her as she was just there and that i was probably doing it with other girls too.
This girl was making me nuts! i was like i give because you complain its not enough and then i finally do show attention and affection its too much and im acting like a boyfriend....Make up your mind! Now we are having that strained relationship again and its affecting me too much. My mind isnt where it should be and i hate the feeling. When were good and hanging out it feels so great and she makes me forget about all the BS from everyday life...but when were fighting my days turn out irratating and i cant stop thinking about all of it.
Ive tried to walk away and forget about her and do my thing but she wont let me...shes said it so herself...i dont want you out of my life so im going to keep pursuing you....but she wont give me what i want and acts selfish so why should i stick around and if i stop talking and ignoring her she will get mad and say i cant even be her friend.
I know she talks to other guys and she tells me that she just talks to them but that she wants nothing with anyone and when she does she feels more comfterable coming with me. I think its a bunch of BS and she just wants her cake and eat it too...haha! How should i handle this situation? She wants to be able to control everything on her time and terms as to when we see each other and talk...I cant handle that...Id rather just ignore her but how long will that last until she begins to nag me again? I think also because shes only 20 going on 21 and im 28 that she acts her age and immature at times even though she can be the most mature person other times...Im torn because she makes me feel like nobody has in a while when all is good, but the negative times are affecting me too much mentally and i cant handle the drama anymore...HELP!Is this girl playing games with me? What should I do?
I love games!
I hate reading!
Sorry :PIs this girl playing games with me? What should I do?
If a girl is mature and shes doing immature things. She is playing games. Rule of thumb. And after reading this, she definitely is. Tell her to get real with you or you'll be gone.
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I told her we cant be friends since we have hooked up and shared alot of things with each other and its hard to just see her as that right now, so i walked away and didnt talk to her for a while...she began to get lonely and not get the attention she was used to getting by me and started texting and calling me again saying she missed me and wanted to be cool with me still talk...i agreed and we had a good talk on that were not ';friends'; and were not a ';couple'; but something more than that cause of how we are with each other and our feelings that we have. So i began to do my thing and still talk to her but not like before. She began to pout and say i didnt treat the same and treated her as she was just there and that i was probably doing it with other girls too.
This girl was making me nuts! i was like i give because you complain its not enough and then i finally do show attention and affection its too much and im acting like a boyfriend....Make up your mind! Now we are having that strained relationship again and its affecting me too much. My mind isnt where it should be and i hate the feeling. When were good and hanging out it feels so great and she makes me forget about all the BS from everyday life...but when were fighting my days turn out irratating and i cant stop thinking about all of it.
Ive tried to walk away and forget about her and do my thing but she wont let me...shes said it so herself...i dont want you out of my life so im going to keep pursuing you....but she wont give me what i want and acts selfish so why should i stick around and if i stop talking and ignoring her she will get mad and say i cant even be her friend.
I know she talks to other guys and she tells me that she just talks to them but that she wants nothing with anyone and when she does she feels more comfterable coming with me. I think its a bunch of BS and she just wants her cake and eat it too...haha! How should i handle this situation? She wants to be able to control everything on her time and terms as to when we see each other and talk...I cant handle that...Id rather just ignore her but how long will that last until she begins to nag me again? I think also because shes only 20 going on 21 and im 28 that she acts her age and immature at times even though she can be the most mature person other times...Im torn because she makes me feel like nobody has in a while when all is good, but the negative times are affecting me too much mentally and i cant handle the drama anymore...HELP!Is this girl playing games with me? What should I do?
I love games!
I hate reading!
Sorry :PIs this girl playing games with me? What should I do?
If a girl is mature and shes doing immature things. She is playing games. Rule of thumb. And after reading this, she definitely is. Tell her to get real with you or you'll be gone.
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How do you dump your boyfriend nicely?
I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months, and he makes me feel so stupid and worthless. I like him a lot. Dumping him will be the hardest thing I have ever done, and it took me 2 months to make this decision. It seemed to get better, than worse, almost like a roller coaster. I want off this crazy ride now. How do I dump him nicely without screwing everything up?How do you dump your boyfriend nicely?
Tell him you have a STDHow do you dump your boyfriend nicely?
'; uhh hunny i really like you and all that but you make me feel stupid and worthless so this is a hard decision for me ((CRY A LITTLE)) but i think we should take a break from are relation ship'; just like that...he might get upset cry or what ever you know guy's getting emotional:'( but works:))
Tell him how you feel. Say that he makes you feel stupid and you cant handle it anymore and apologize.
cousin nikko had wife. wife got mad at cousin nikko and cut his penis off, cousin nikko was happy when found penis but never saw wife again!
I got issues i need to deal with. Too personal for you to get involved so we need time apart. I'll let you know once i figure them out.
Tell him exactly how you feel and tell him you don't think its going to work out.
just tell him how u feel about him, and hopefully he will respect your decision.
Break-up sex
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You could address the problem with him rather then yahoo answers.
Tell him you're pregnant.skin discoloration hair dryer
Tell him you have a STDHow do you dump your boyfriend nicely?
'; uhh hunny i really like you and all that but you make me feel stupid and worthless so this is a hard decision for me ((CRY A LITTLE)) but i think we should take a break from are relation ship'; just like that...he might get upset cry or what ever you know guy's getting emotional:'( but works:))
Tell him how you feel. Say that he makes you feel stupid and you cant handle it anymore and apologize.
cousin nikko had wife. wife got mad at cousin nikko and cut his penis off, cousin nikko was happy when found penis but never saw wife again!
I got issues i need to deal with. Too personal for you to get involved so we need time apart. I'll let you know once i figure them out.
Tell him exactly how you feel and tell him you don't think its going to work out.
just tell him how u feel about him, and hopefully he will respect your decision.
Break-up sex
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You could address the problem with him rather then yahoo answers.
Tell him you're pregnant.
Has your boyfriend seen you without makeup?
i feel really insecure without makeup. only my family and close friends know how i look like without it, and trust, i look really different. bad i should say. i've been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months now, not too long. i totally feel comfortable with him when we talk and stuff... but i don't know... i get scared just thinking about him seeing me without makeup. i know this sounds really stupid and shallow and all... but i look REALLY bad without it.... i hope some of you girls out there know how i feel... cause if you dont then i probably sound really dumb..%26gt;%26lt; i know he obviously won't leave me because of it i'm just scared of what he thinks and i don't know.. how to explain it. maybe this question is for the girls who are more insecure and care about make up and all that.... when was it until your bf saw you without makeup and all ? thanksHas your boyfriend seen you without makeup?
i totally know how you feel, and trust me...a lot of girls feel the same way.
my ex boyfriend NEVER saw me without make up. i mean, we lived far away from eachother so any chance i got to see him you know i was fixin myself up and loading the make-up on. lol
but my man now sees me all the time with nothin on my face, and he's totally fine with it.
i was really insecure about it at first and so i was always scared to stay the night at his house cuz then obviously he'd see me in the morning. lol but he didn't even care, and he tells me im beautiful even when i KNOW i look tore up.
chances are, your boyfriend likes you for the person you are. of course your appearance influences his feeling somewhat, but they aren't what your relationship is based on im sure.
he's still gonna like you even with no make-up on. i promise.
people who are truuuuuuuuuly just not good looking, can't use make-up to fix all their flaws.
so im sure you don't look that bad. shoot, i know that you don't. you'll be alright.Has your boyfriend seen you without makeup?
I was with a guy for 2 months. Things were going so great. But was really into looks, %26amp; I look horrible with no makeup He saw me w/o it %26amp;, he quickly changed from the sweet guy I was falling in love w/ to the guy who wanted to ';take a break'; from the relationship. A week later he dumped me.
i'm a guy, i actually like girls without makeups than girls with tons of makeups.
most guys like the natural look of a girl, and i bet your boyfriend will be the same.
if he doesn't, like you without makeups. do you really want to stay with him???
yeah...lol.... it's inevitable eventually.
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No your not dumb!!! but when i had my boyfriend i didnt wear much makeup on so they have seen me without makeup on!! and i only put it on when i go out!!
i totally know how you feel, and trust me...a lot of girls feel the same way.
my ex boyfriend NEVER saw me without make up. i mean, we lived far away from eachother so any chance i got to see him you know i was fixin myself up and loading the make-up on. lol
but my man now sees me all the time with nothin on my face, and he's totally fine with it.
i was really insecure about it at first and so i was always scared to stay the night at his house cuz then obviously he'd see me in the morning. lol but he didn't even care, and he tells me im beautiful even when i KNOW i look tore up.
chances are, your boyfriend likes you for the person you are. of course your appearance influences his feeling somewhat, but they aren't what your relationship is based on im sure.
he's still gonna like you even with no make-up on. i promise.
people who are truuuuuuuuuly just not good looking, can't use make-up to fix all their flaws.
so im sure you don't look that bad. shoot, i know that you don't. you'll be alright.Has your boyfriend seen you without makeup?
I was with a guy for 2 months. Things were going so great. But was really into looks, %26amp; I look horrible with no makeup He saw me w/o it %26amp;, he quickly changed from the sweet guy I was falling in love w/ to the guy who wanted to ';take a break'; from the relationship. A week later he dumped me.
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i'm a guy, i actually like girls without makeups than girls with tons of makeups.
most guys like the natural look of a girl, and i bet your boyfriend will be the same.
if he doesn't, like you without makeups. do you really want to stay with him???
yeah...lol.... it's inevitable eventually.
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No your not dumb!!! but when i had my boyfriend i didnt wear much makeup on so they have seen me without makeup on!! and i only put it on when i go out!!
(Women) If your husband/boyfriend wanted to make you into a doll?
What type of doll would you want to become? How would you want to be dressed up? What would you want him to do with you?(Women) If your husband/boyfriend wanted to make you into a doll?
that would be pretty messed up.(Women) If your husband/boyfriend wanted to make you into a doll?
what inspired this question?
that would be pretty messed up.(Women) If your husband/boyfriend wanted to make you into a doll?
what inspired this question?
How do you make a gay guy back off your boyfriend?
me and my boyfriend have the gay friend that has a crush on him and when ever i call to check up on my bf or to let him know something about our two boys we have our friend always answers the phone and never lets me talk to my bf. also when the 3 of us go any where i have to sit in the back while my bf drives and our friends sits in the passenger side. there's also times that my bf will go out and drink and when i call my bf's cell our friend well go into this spill about how at the moment he doesn't want to talk to me doesn't want anything to do with me he's with him so at the moment he's. he's really getting under my skin and if wasn't for have to kids and going to jail i'd kill him. but i thought see what any one else might say. and let me make this perfectly clear my bf is not gay or bi in any way i know i've seen other gay people hit on him and he tells them off. but our friend thinks he can turn him i've tried talking to my bf about it and he's talk to him about it but it doesn't do any good it makes it worse any suggestings pranks or anything so that i could have my BF back to myself aand not feel like i have to share himHow do you make a gay guy back off your boyfriend?
Either your boyfriend is getting off on the attention this guy is giving him, that perhaps he lacks at home since you guys have children together, or he's possibly having an affair with this guy. Of course he's not going to bluntly tell you ';I like men.'; And if other gay guys have hit on him, of course he's going to turn them down in front of you.
Look I'm not saying he's a closet case but I've never heard of a straight guy having such an intimate friendship with a gay guy where he was shafting his girlfriend at all costs and telling her he's having his time with his friend.
';and when i call my bf's cell our friend well go into this spill about how at the moment he doesn't want to talk to me doesn't want anything to do with me he's with him';
Did you read what you wrote? There are red flags all over this! This is not normal of a ';friendship.'; You need to tell him to cut the crap or you're walking. This guy is playing you.How do you make a gay guy back off your boyfriend?
Take a grammar course...Then tell him to get over it, he is your boyfriend, and that is the way it is, it is very unfriendly of him to try and infringe on your relationship and attempt to break you up for his own benefit, sounds like a bad friend in my mind, I would have stopped being his friend a long time ago if I was you. Hope I could help
it seems there is something going on between the two of them and he must be finding it hard to tell you. obviously his loyalitys belong to the other guy. confront your bf and ask him straight out what is going on between them and watch his facial reactions/body language. good luck
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Tell your friend its your man, and he needs to back off and find his own hunk of a man.
well you need to both firmly tell him to back off and if he doesnt maybe you dont need him as a friend
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I think you have to get you boyfriend to tell this friend that he needs to back off a little. I don't think he is going to realize the severity unless the boyfriend say something because he is gonna look at the you as the jealous girlfriend. It may be a hard thing to do because this is a god friend but that is all he is a FRIEND. If you let him he is gonna keep pushing your boundaries until he completely comes between you and your boyfriend. I think he has already gone too far when he made you sit in the back of the car. That is out of control and until you put him in his place it is only going to get worse.
Have you talked to your boyfriend about this situation?
What does HE say?
Sounds to me from what you've written that your boyfriend would rather spend time with his gay male friend than with you and the kids. I mean, come on -- every time you call your boyfriend, his gay friend is there and answers the phone and refuses to let you talk to him? When the 3 of you go anywhere, the gay friend sits in front with your boyfriend and you sit in the back? When you call your boyfriend's cell phone, his gay friend answers and says ';sorry, at the moment he doesn't want to talk to you, he's with me';??
Sweetie, I hate to break this to you, but it really sounds like your baby daddy is having an affair with his gay buddy. Just because he turns down advances from other gay people in front of you means nothing -- it just means that 1. he already has a boyfriend and isn't looking for another one, and 2. he doesn't want you to know he's gay/bi.
Your gay friend doesn't ';think he can turn him.'; He already has.
You're not getting your boyfriend back. I suspect the only reason he hasn't just come out and broken up with you is because of the two boys. Break up with him -- hire a lawyer and get child support for the kids -- and find someone else who won't cheat on you with another man. You're done.
Tell your husband to stop hanging out with him. And let the friend know, that you wouldn't do this to him, and you feel what he is doing is very disrespectful. But.. your husband knows what he is doing, and he still chooses to hang out with him and have a guys night out. It seems your husband spend a bit of time with him. They may be just friends. Yet, your husband always lets this guy answer the phone when you call, there may be more between them. Just because other gay guys hit on him and your husband told them off, doesn't mean he isn't gay. He could have been covering it up because you were there.
Your boyfriend should punch the jerk out and urinate on his face.
Either your boyfriend is getting off on the attention this guy is giving him, that perhaps he lacks at home since you guys have children together, or he's possibly having an affair with this guy. Of course he's not going to bluntly tell you ';I like men.'; And if other gay guys have hit on him, of course he's going to turn them down in front of you.
Look I'm not saying he's a closet case but I've never heard of a straight guy having such an intimate friendship with a gay guy where he was shafting his girlfriend at all costs and telling her he's having his time with his friend.
';and when i call my bf's cell our friend well go into this spill about how at the moment he doesn't want to talk to me doesn't want anything to do with me he's with him';
Did you read what you wrote? There are red flags all over this! This is not normal of a ';friendship.'; You need to tell him to cut the crap or you're walking. This guy is playing you.How do you make a gay guy back off your boyfriend?
Take a grammar course...Then tell him to get over it, he is your boyfriend, and that is the way it is, it is very unfriendly of him to try and infringe on your relationship and attempt to break you up for his own benefit, sounds like a bad friend in my mind, I would have stopped being his friend a long time ago if I was you. Hope I could help
it seems there is something going on between the two of them and he must be finding it hard to tell you. obviously his loyalitys belong to the other guy. confront your bf and ask him straight out what is going on between them and watch his facial reactions/body language. good luck
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three-some
Tell your friend its your man, and he needs to back off and find his own hunk of a man.
well you need to both firmly tell him to back off and if he doesnt maybe you dont need him as a friend
jealous
I think you have to get you boyfriend to tell this friend that he needs to back off a little. I don't think he is going to realize the severity unless the boyfriend say something because he is gonna look at the you as the jealous girlfriend. It may be a hard thing to do because this is a god friend but that is all he is a FRIEND. If you let him he is gonna keep pushing your boundaries until he completely comes between you and your boyfriend. I think he has already gone too far when he made you sit in the back of the car. That is out of control and until you put him in his place it is only going to get worse.
Have you talked to your boyfriend about this situation?
What does HE say?
Sounds to me from what you've written that your boyfriend would rather spend time with his gay male friend than with you and the kids. I mean, come on -- every time you call your boyfriend, his gay friend is there and answers the phone and refuses to let you talk to him? When the 3 of you go anywhere, the gay friend sits in front with your boyfriend and you sit in the back? When you call your boyfriend's cell phone, his gay friend answers and says ';sorry, at the moment he doesn't want to talk to you, he's with me';??
Sweetie, I hate to break this to you, but it really sounds like your baby daddy is having an affair with his gay buddy. Just because he turns down advances from other gay people in front of you means nothing -- it just means that 1. he already has a boyfriend and isn't looking for another one, and 2. he doesn't want you to know he's gay/bi.
Your gay friend doesn't ';think he can turn him.'; He already has.
You're not getting your boyfriend back. I suspect the only reason he hasn't just come out and broken up with you is because of the two boys. Break up with him -- hire a lawyer and get child support for the kids -- and find someone else who won't cheat on you with another man. You're done.
Tell your husband to stop hanging out with him. And let the friend know, that you wouldn't do this to him, and you feel what he is doing is very disrespectful. But.. your husband knows what he is doing, and he still chooses to hang out with him and have a guys night out. It seems your husband spend a bit of time with him. They may be just friends. Yet, your husband always lets this guy answer the phone when you call, there may be more between them. Just because other gay guys hit on him and your husband told them off, doesn't mean he isn't gay. He could have been covering it up because you were there.
Your boyfriend should punch the jerk out and urinate on his face.
My boyfriends brother called me a skank & my boyfriend wont stick up for me & say anything to him?
My boyfriend is 22, his brother is 15, it feels like some how he is scared to stick up for me or something, he complains that he cant get there %26amp; have a go at him for it cause he has no car, but when he says it it feels like hes just making up a whole bunch of excuses to not say anything to him, should i be putting up with this? i deserve RESPECT %26amp; to me APPRECIATED, its been 3months since hes called me one, %26amp; my so called boyfriend has not ONCE bothered or thought to have a go at him for me %26amp; stick up for me, he lets him just walk all over me like that %26amp; treat me like that, it makes me madly angry, how would you feel if this was your boyfriend? its wrong how he says 'oh i dont have a car to get there' when he could get a lift there to his mums house...My boyfriends brother called me a skank %26amp; my boyfriend wont stick up for me %26amp; say anything to him?
no offense but hes' an asshole!!!!!!!!!
rue boyfriends stick up for you cz they care!
imagine if u guys ended up married and u got in trouble?
he would never stick up for you!
but he'd still expect u to be there for him... so not fair!!
im sorry but i think you should break up with him!
nobody deserves that!
its like he doesnt respect you or care about you!
im sure thats not what you want.
thats my opiniona nd the rest is up to you. goodluck!
-sammers-My boyfriends brother called me a skank %26amp; my boyfriend wont stick up for me %26amp; say anything to him?
LEAVE HIM!!!!! OR TELL HIM F*** OFF
any one that want stand up to any one for treating his girl
like that don't have any respect are love for her. and on
top of that it was his brother. girl i sure wouldn't put up
with that. if he want stand up for you now. it's sure not
going to get any better. drop him and move on. ma be one day he will see that he lost the love of his life for being
stupid.
your bf 22? and his brother 15? and your letting his brother walk all over you? tut tut
slap his brother round the head. boot his brother up the **** and tell him you dont take no nonsense and that your father will deal with him if he carries on.
sorted luv!!!! hehe =P
Why does your boyfriend have to be your hero that always defends your honour when you demand it?
Stick up for yourself, and never depend on anyone else to do it for you.
I sense a change is forth coming.
Good Luck
Has his brother only called you a skank just the once? If so, I'd let it go...I mean the kid's young and stupid, and at the age of 15 he's probably just jealous that his older brother has a girl and he doesn't. If he were continuously putting you down in front of his brother, then that'd be a different story...then I'd say yes, your boyfriend should say something. But like I said, if it was only the one time, and it was 3 months ago...don't stress over it...it's only going to keep causing problems between you and your man in the long run if you don't let it go. Believe me, I am all about respect and appreciation, but you have to choose your battles. Is this little pipsqueak worth fighting over?
you are correct
you deserve RESPECT and APPRECIATION
are you just being used?
Its pretty obvious he has no respect for you honey. If he did he would have just picked up the phone and told his brother off. Remember this, actions always speak louder than words. You should have expressed your feelings to him right after it happened.
He should stick up for you and have a word to his brother. thats what boyfriends are supposed to do. you deserve nothing less.
no offense but hes' an asshole!!!!!!!!!
rue boyfriends stick up for you cz they care!
imagine if u guys ended up married and u got in trouble?
he would never stick up for you!
but he'd still expect u to be there for him... so not fair!!
im sorry but i think you should break up with him!
nobody deserves that!
its like he doesnt respect you or care about you!
im sure thats not what you want.
thats my opiniona nd the rest is up to you. goodluck!
-sammers-My boyfriends brother called me a skank %26amp; my boyfriend wont stick up for me %26amp; say anything to him?
LEAVE HIM!!!!! OR TELL HIM F*** OFF
any one that want stand up to any one for treating his girl
like that don't have any respect are love for her. and on
top of that it was his brother. girl i sure wouldn't put up
with that. if he want stand up for you now. it's sure not
going to get any better. drop him and move on. ma be one day he will see that he lost the love of his life for being
stupid.
your bf 22? and his brother 15? and your letting his brother walk all over you? tut tut
slap his brother round the head. boot his brother up the **** and tell him you dont take no nonsense and that your father will deal with him if he carries on.
sorted luv!!!! hehe =P
Why does your boyfriend have to be your hero that always defends your honour when you demand it?
Stick up for yourself, and never depend on anyone else to do it for you.
I sense a change is forth coming.
Good Luck
Has his brother only called you a skank just the once? If so, I'd let it go...I mean the kid's young and stupid, and at the age of 15 he's probably just jealous that his older brother has a girl and he doesn't. If he were continuously putting you down in front of his brother, then that'd be a different story...then I'd say yes, your boyfriend should say something. But like I said, if it was only the one time, and it was 3 months ago...don't stress over it...it's only going to keep causing problems between you and your man in the long run if you don't let it go. Believe me, I am all about respect and appreciation, but you have to choose your battles. Is this little pipsqueak worth fighting over?
you are correct
you deserve RESPECT and APPRECIATION
are you just being used?
Its pretty obvious he has no respect for you honey. If he did he would have just picked up the phone and told his brother off. Remember this, actions always speak louder than words. You should have expressed your feelings to him right after it happened.
He should stick up for you and have a word to his brother. thats what boyfriends are supposed to do. you deserve nothing less.
Making your boyfriend admit hes wrong...is it possible?
well me and my boyfriend of almost three years have been having issues lately.there came a time in our relationship when we broke up because he wouldnt get a job.i got with someone else. and he of course rubs that in my face. he to went out with someone else. but says that it isnt the same or wrong because he didnt have sex with the girl yet i did with my ex.there other things too like when we get in fights.we try saying that we wont bring up the past anymore btu usually hes the one donig so.he messes up all the time.so do i but i admit my faults and there less that his.btu the thing is that everything i do is always wrong and crossing the line and what ever he does isnt. how do i amke him understand that he does mess up and lot???Making your boyfriend admit hes wrong...is it possible?
I dont feel bad for him! He didn't want to be a man and get a job so you found a REAL man! Sorry but anyone who doesn't want to get a job is a loser.Making your boyfriend admit hes wrong...is it possible?
You can never move forward if you are continually looking back, if you want to make this work and i think you should, you might consider on just agreeing to disagree and taking the higher road of just saying you know what, i love you and am willing to look forward beyond the past to create a brighter future with you. You will never force him to see his own errors he needs to want to, and want to change, so make him want to.......
Yes, it is possible, but only if he chooses to be A: reasonable, B: honest and C: wants things to improve between you.
If things happened 'after you'd split up', then so be it. You don't owe each other anything by way of an explanation and it is neither the business of the other what happened following a split.
If he is not mature enough to understand, then you are trying to flog a horse that is dead.
Sash.
Personally I think you shouldn't be with someone that doesn't trust you are keeps the past in the past. He needs to understand that people make mistakes and whether or not he didn't get further doesn't give him the right to hold any grudge. Talk it out and if it continues leave him he apparently doesn't know a good thing when he has it.
issues are always going to happen.
you both need to talk about this or else it wont get solved.
well it wont really get solved at all because the guy wont get over
it and always bring it up trust. even though its the past they never get over it so just
try to resolve things the best way you can.
You can't make him do anything. All you can do is tell him how you feel and hope that he understands and tries to change. If he won't, then you need to decide if it's time to move on. If he really cared, he would make an effort to be more considerate of your feelings.
what's the point of making him realize that he is an idiot.
Only you need to realize that so that you can make the choice to move on from him.
Why do you care you arent going out with him? Also maybe if you **** him again with some crazy fun stuff mixed in he will most likely forget the whole thing.
your both unhappy move on
Don't do that! Don't try to make him feel bad.
Talk to him. Tell him you don't want to talk about the past anymore. I've been in that situation before and me and my boyfriend would somehow bring up our past in every fight and we only made the fight worse by doing so.
Get it over with already. Explain to him how you feel and tell him what he's doing wrong and let him do the same. When you sort that out, you won't bring up the past anymore r hold any grudges against each other.
I dont feel bad for him! He didn't want to be a man and get a job so you found a REAL man! Sorry but anyone who doesn't want to get a job is a loser.Making your boyfriend admit hes wrong...is it possible?
You can never move forward if you are continually looking back, if you want to make this work and i think you should, you might consider on just agreeing to disagree and taking the higher road of just saying you know what, i love you and am willing to look forward beyond the past to create a brighter future with you. You will never force him to see his own errors he needs to want to, and want to change, so make him want to.......
Yes, it is possible, but only if he chooses to be A: reasonable, B: honest and C: wants things to improve between you.
If things happened 'after you'd split up', then so be it. You don't owe each other anything by way of an explanation and it is neither the business of the other what happened following a split.
If he is not mature enough to understand, then you are trying to flog a horse that is dead.
Sash.
Personally I think you shouldn't be with someone that doesn't trust you are keeps the past in the past. He needs to understand that people make mistakes and whether or not he didn't get further doesn't give him the right to hold any grudge. Talk it out and if it continues leave him he apparently doesn't know a good thing when he has it.
issues are always going to happen.
you both need to talk about this or else it wont get solved.
well it wont really get solved at all because the guy wont get over
it and always bring it up trust. even though its the past they never get over it so just
try to resolve things the best way you can.
You can't make him do anything. All you can do is tell him how you feel and hope that he understands and tries to change. If he won't, then you need to decide if it's time to move on. If he really cared, he would make an effort to be more considerate of your feelings.
what's the point of making him realize that he is an idiot.
Only you need to realize that so that you can make the choice to move on from him.
Why do you care you arent going out with him? Also maybe if you **** him again with some crazy fun stuff mixed in he will most likely forget the whole thing.
your both unhappy move on
Don't do that! Don't try to make him feel bad.
Talk to him. Tell him you don't want to talk about the past anymore. I've been in that situation before and me and my boyfriend would somehow bring up our past in every fight and we only made the fight worse by doing so.
Get it over with already. Explain to him how you feel and tell him what he's doing wrong and let him do the same. When you sort that out, you won't bring up the past anymore r hold any grudges against each other.
Do the police have the right to question how far you went with your boyfriend while making out?
My friend and her boyfriend were making out in his car and the police came over to them took each one out of the car by themselves and asked how far they got, and asked the guy if her clothes were still on. I just find this to be crazy and wrong...am I right?
Also, they told the boy to leave while they waited for the girls parents to get there and pick her up...am I right to find this totally wrong??Do the police have the right to question how far you went with your boyfriend while making out?
If one or both of you were underage, the contact could be illegal. Therefore, the questions were justified. If both were of legal age, the questions were inappropriate.
Assuming one or both were underage, separating the two and advising the parents seems appropriate also.Do the police have the right to question how far you went with your boyfriend while making out?
The questions are legal and justified, but i agree with you, i don't find it right at all.
Cops abusive their power sometimes, and get into peoples business and personal choices.
Like wearing a seat belt...its a persons personal choice. But the law says it's a requirement, and i don't think its the cops business.
But yeah, i think they were being ridiculous.
:)
They can ask whatever they want and usually don't care what is legal or illegal they are too empowered to care just remember that you have the right to say absolutely nothing. They may beat you if you stay silent but it is the best option 90% of the time.
It depends on wether they were both of legal age (Indecent activities with a minor) Also, they may have asked those questions to see if they could charge them with incedent exposure or something along that line. It really depends on the laws where you guys live.
I suppose so..I guess it depends on your state..if certian contact is prohibited. If they were in a public area and she had no clothes on..I suppose that can be charged for disorderly conduct or exposure. I could be wrong.
Cops can ask anything they want. Remember..u dont have to answer if u dont want to.
funny...the same thing happened to me! oh wait...it is me!skin discoloration hair dryer
Also, they told the boy to leave while they waited for the girls parents to get there and pick her up...am I right to find this totally wrong??Do the police have the right to question how far you went with your boyfriend while making out?
If one or both of you were underage, the contact could be illegal. Therefore, the questions were justified. If both were of legal age, the questions were inappropriate.
Assuming one or both were underage, separating the two and advising the parents seems appropriate also.Do the police have the right to question how far you went with your boyfriend while making out?
The questions are legal and justified, but i agree with you, i don't find it right at all.
Cops abusive their power sometimes, and get into peoples business and personal choices.
Like wearing a seat belt...its a persons personal choice. But the law says it's a requirement, and i don't think its the cops business.
But yeah, i think they were being ridiculous.
:)
They can ask whatever they want and usually don't care what is legal or illegal they are too empowered to care just remember that you have the right to say absolutely nothing. They may beat you if you stay silent but it is the best option 90% of the time.
It depends on wether they were both of legal age (Indecent activities with a minor) Also, they may have asked those questions to see if they could charge them with incedent exposure or something along that line. It really depends on the laws where you guys live.
I suppose so..I guess it depends on your state..if certian contact is prohibited. If they were in a public area and she had no clothes on..I suppose that can be charged for disorderly conduct or exposure. I could be wrong.
Cops can ask anything they want. Remember..u dont have to answer if u dont want to.
funny...the same thing happened to me! oh wait...it is me!
My boyfriend broke up with me after nine months?
wow, so what can i say... besides that i hate men right now? you find a great one %26amp; they just crush your heart. you think it's forever %26amp; you were meant to be %26amp; it's not... god, just makes your heart feel beat up %26amp; broken. after a great weekend with my boyfriend, bowling, hanging out, movies, cribbage, dinner, etc. He sent me a message on yahoo %26amp; asked to come over to my place. and I had a bad feeling in my stomach. So he gets here %26amp; he is shaking terribly %26amp; he starts hugging %26amp; kissing me on the cheek. for a second i thought that maybe someone had passed away %26amp; then he came out %26amp; said that he has to do one of the hardest things... and that was to break up with me. he said that he was feeling us more as friends then as lovers. he said he loved me, but he wasn't in love with me. he said that he needed a little bit of space %26amp; try to figure things out. and that i'm a great woman %26amp; i don't deserve him. i don't understand, he has never lead to anything to have given him a reason to break up with me. we were the perfect couple, we never faught over anything. what the heck?! i so want to make this work, i want to be with him, i can see us growing old together. I want to get him back, can I? Do i have that chance? what can i do? How long should I wait? I have never felt this way about a man. (I'm 28 %26amp; he is 30 as a side note).My boyfriend broke up with me after nine months?
I'm so sorry this happened to you. You have to understand that he broke up with you for a reason. It could be that he is interested in another woman and he wanted to let you down easy, or he was telling the truth and he just doesn't see a future with you. Since he's 30 he is getting to the point where he wants to settle down. If he doesn't feel your the right one he's not going to want to waste time finding the right one. The best thing for you to do is to give him space and hope he figures out that he misses you. Just keep being you and doing things you enjoy and be happy. He'll see you happy and coming running back, especially if your relationship is as good as you say it was.My boyfriend broke up with me after nine months?
well '' i dont deserve u'' is the most disgusting cliche . when a man says this he just means he doesnt like to be with u anymore. dont make it hard for urself he really isnt worth thinking. when u both had great time together without any problem just a stupid will break up or he just found another one. so he is too mean to be with.
yea he was most likely cheating on you.
Ah ha!! LAMO *while pointing his finger*
He found someone else. That's what I gather from what you've said.
lol ';nine months';
give him time and he will miss you enough to want you back
I'm so sorry this happened to you. You have to understand that he broke up with you for a reason. It could be that he is interested in another woman and he wanted to let you down easy, or he was telling the truth and he just doesn't see a future with you. Since he's 30 he is getting to the point where he wants to settle down. If he doesn't feel your the right one he's not going to want to waste time finding the right one. The best thing for you to do is to give him space and hope he figures out that he misses you. Just keep being you and doing things you enjoy and be happy. He'll see you happy and coming running back, especially if your relationship is as good as you say it was.My boyfriend broke up with me after nine months?
well '' i dont deserve u'' is the most disgusting cliche . when a man says this he just means he doesnt like to be with u anymore. dont make it hard for urself he really isnt worth thinking. when u both had great time together without any problem just a stupid will break up or he just found another one. so he is too mean to be with.
yea he was most likely cheating on you.
Ah ha!! LAMO *while pointing his finger*
He found someone else. That's what I gather from what you've said.
lol ';nine months';
give him time and he will miss you enough to want you back
How do you make a chick stop falling for your boyfriend from a distance?
lets try and make this as short as possible lol. me=texas him=colorado her=colorado. he's an amazing boyfriend, we've been together for 3 years, he doesn't want her at all half because he really truly loves me (or at least i believe he does with every ounce of my being) and half because she cheated on his best friend with another guy and he not only doesn't want to lose his friendship with this guy but he also doesn't want a whore for a girlfriend. My only problem with the whole situation is that i have to deal with the pain of her sending him love letters and posting up status messages and stuff about her wanting to be with my boyfriend and it kinda hurts.
is there anyway:
a.) I can get her to fall out of love with him and give up forever (my favorite option)
b.) for me to ignore her status (which is a bit tough cause i'm quite nosey and a little paranoid)
c.)to make good waffles out of toastHow do you make a chick stop falling for your boyfriend from a distance?
Be patient and do what's right in your opinion and all should work out fine
is there anyway:
a.) I can get her to fall out of love with him and give up forever (my favorite option)
b.) for me to ignore her status (which is a bit tough cause i'm quite nosey and a little paranoid)
c.)to make good waffles out of toastHow do you make a chick stop falling for your boyfriend from a distance?
Be patient and do what's right in your opinion and all should work out fine
How would you break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were in this situation?
Ok..asking this makes me feel a little bit childish, and I know I probably can do it on my own without asking for help..but every time I get the chance, I flip out and just tell myself I'll do it next time. But I'm tired of waiting. So yeahh..
We started dating around the middle of the school year, and I was extremely happy he finally asked me out. As the days passed, things were looking really great. Yada Yada Yada.
He ended up telling me one day that he was moving out of the city at the end of the school year, and wasn't coming back.
Right then and there he gave me the option to split-up, but I declined because I figured we would still talk some after he left.
Well, I was an idiot for thinking that.
When he sends me a message of myspace saying he'll call me, he never does. And when he actually does call, he never shuts up. I mean..I don't mind being there for him..but I have my times when I need someone to talk to too. Ya know?
He's visited me once or twice for only about an hour, which is either spent with him babbling and me nodding my head or him trying to get me 'in the mood'.
*-* I'm a virgin...don't judge me. ;%26gt;%26gt; *-*
Anyway..It's come to the point that I dread the days he calls or visits. I just can't stand it.
If he can't take 10 minutes out of his day to just call me and ask how I was feeling..I don't see it as worth it.
Any tips on how to break him the news?
I've never 'dumped' anyone before...It's always been I who was the 'dumpee'.
Thanks ahead How would you break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were in this situation?
your right about dumping him.. before he visits again... next time he calls.. just say.. this is not working out for me and I want to see other people.. so please dont call me anymore.. and simply hangup.. when he calls back.. say Im dating some else now.. so sorry but its over.. and thats it.... dont engage in conversation with him...because he may try to convince you to see him again or to not breakup with him.. so its important that you dont talk to him.. just say please dont call me anymore and hang up.. How would you break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were in this situation?
Just do it babe. Get new friends or not and move on. This guy is wasting your time and you are wasting his.
Just tell the guy you no-longer have time for him.Tell the guy how you feel no BS!!
We started dating around the middle of the school year, and I was extremely happy he finally asked me out. As the days passed, things were looking really great. Yada Yada Yada.
He ended up telling me one day that he was moving out of the city at the end of the school year, and wasn't coming back.
Right then and there he gave me the option to split-up, but I declined because I figured we would still talk some after he left.
Well, I was an idiot for thinking that.
When he sends me a message of myspace saying he'll call me, he never does. And when he actually does call, he never shuts up. I mean..I don't mind being there for him..but I have my times when I need someone to talk to too. Ya know?
He's visited me once or twice for only about an hour, which is either spent with him babbling and me nodding my head or him trying to get me 'in the mood'.
*-* I'm a virgin...don't judge me. ;%26gt;%26gt; *-*
Anyway..It's come to the point that I dread the days he calls or visits. I just can't stand it.
If he can't take 10 minutes out of his day to just call me and ask how I was feeling..I don't see it as worth it.
Any tips on how to break him the news?
I've never 'dumped' anyone before...It's always been I who was the 'dumpee'.
Thanks ahead How would you break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were in this situation?
your right about dumping him.. before he visits again... next time he calls.. just say.. this is not working out for me and I want to see other people.. so please dont call me anymore.. and simply hangup.. when he calls back.. say Im dating some else now.. so sorry but its over.. and thats it.... dont engage in conversation with him...because he may try to convince you to see him again or to not breakup with him.. so its important that you dont talk to him.. just say please dont call me anymore and hang up.. How would you break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were in this situation?
Just do it babe. Get new friends or not and move on. This guy is wasting your time and you are wasting his.
Just tell the guy you no-longer have time for him.Tell the guy how you feel no BS!!
How doe you know if your boyfriend is really crying or fake crying when you break up with him?????
I've broken up with my boyfriend twice already but he tells me that he wants to be with me and stuff like that and cries but i don't know if hes faking or for reals because he never really has time for me and is always making excuses (I think but who knows his side of the story) but I just don't think its gonna work out!!!!How doe you know if your boyfriend is really crying or fake crying when you break up with him?????
Your intuition is spot on. Learn to trust that voice more.
Cheers!How doe you know if your boyfriend is really crying or fake crying when you break up with him?????
real or faking...he seems to have you whipped into believing he wants you. gurl if he can't make the time than he is not that into you. he just wants you around, he doesn't need you. there is a big difference. he sounds co-dependent.....dump him!
he is crying b/c no more bj's for him
well you obviously like him if you care if he is faking or not. there are some guys who are cry babies, they cry over everything. some guys wont ever cry. i used to fake cry over this girl all the time, i would even run to the faucet and put water in my eyes. whether or not if he is faking it shouldnt matter, if he is faking maybe he feels like crying but it just isnt happening.
go w/ ur gut feeling
of corse he's crying your taking away his favorite toy, who cares how he feels if you dont want to be with him, don't be with him for the life of me i dont understand why he'd want to be with someone who don't want to be with him anyways.
has he ejaculated?
Your intuition is spot on. Learn to trust that voice more.
Cheers!How doe you know if your boyfriend is really crying or fake crying when you break up with him?????
real or faking...he seems to have you whipped into believing he wants you. gurl if he can't make the time than he is not that into you. he just wants you around, he doesn't need you. there is a big difference. he sounds co-dependent.....dump him!
he is crying b/c no more bj's for him
well you obviously like him if you care if he is faking or not. there are some guys who are cry babies, they cry over everything. some guys wont ever cry. i used to fake cry over this girl all the time, i would even run to the faucet and put water in my eyes. whether or not if he is faking it shouldnt matter, if he is faking maybe he feels like crying but it just isnt happening.
go w/ ur gut feeling
of corse he's crying your taking away his favorite toy, who cares how he feels if you dont want to be with him, don't be with him for the life of me i dont understand why he'd want to be with someone who don't want to be with him anyways.
has he ejaculated?
When your boyfriend ignores you how does it make you feel?
My boyfriend and I had been getting along really great this last month, and I had stopped over to his place and he asked me to come back over but that he would probably be asleep and that he would put in a movie for me, I told him that with out him being awake to watch it with me, then not to bother with putting one in, but that I would be back. However when I came back his door was locked, and he wouldn't answer the door. it upset me that he would ask me to come over, then do this. then when I came by the next day, Same thing. so the next time I went over, I just didnt knock and went and worked the garden and then I left without saying anything. but then that night as I was finishing up what I said I would do. he came out and asked me what I was doing, I told him finishing up what I said I would do then I would be out of his way. I also tried the 3rd day to just pick up some parts that I needed that he had, and he had his gate locked, I stepped over it anyways, and knocked, no answeWhen your boyfriend ignores you how does it make you feel?
Do you need a house to fall on you? He sounds like he is trying politely to tell you he isn't interested anymore. If a man ignores me, I'd find a new man.When your boyfriend ignores you how does it make you feel?
Uh... he's a jerk. If he cares about you there's no way he'd be blowing you off like this.
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Do you need a house to fall on you? He sounds like he is trying politely to tell you he isn't interested anymore. If a man ignores me, I'd find a new man.When your boyfriend ignores you how does it make you feel?
Uh... he's a jerk. If he cares about you there's no way he'd be blowing you off like this.
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What are Some Signs that Your Boyfriend Wants to Break UP?
Him and I have dated for 9 months and in the beginning we were inseperable but now it is like he never has the time 2 even come see me. He recently became the manager at a fast food restaurant and has been working a lot but I feel like he should make time for me. I told him how I feel and he says that it's not that he wants to break up with me but he just needs time to himself, and sometimes he wants 2 come visit me when he wants to come visit me etc. (so it's on his terms.)
He says he doesn't want 2 break up and that he still loves me, but he complains that I am needy. He also doesn't call or txt as much as he used 2.
What are Some Signs that Your Boyfriend Wants to Break UP?
i don't think he wants to break up. i think he is just stressed out with the new responsibility and he is upset that you ask him why he changed, which makes him feel like he screwed up...i understand you, i know you love him and miss him, and you are not needy, you just need him because you love him, but guys are like that, the more you ask them to do something, the more they feel like you are pushing them, and the more they do the opposite.
so my advice to you would be to tell him that you love him and miss him a lot and that you would love to see him as much as possible, but you understand that he is busy and that he is going through a lot. explain to him that you are willing to wait and be supportive and understanding and finish with a ';but babe please try to make some time for us because i really miss you and i love to be around you';
feeling that you will love him even if he is too busy, and that you understand his situation , will make him try even more to see you because then he feels like he is doing it FOR you not because ';he has to';
Good luck honey :)What are Some Signs that Your Boyfriend Wants to Break UP?
Hello,
Try not to bother him too much. He may be just overwhelmed with work is all. You would be surprised how people deal with their feelings. Give him some space and don't pressure him too much. He is already saying you are needy, so please try not to push it. In the meantime; I suggest you visit this website, it has helped a few other ladies.
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sounds like he has no idea.
He says he doesn't want 2 break up and that he still loves me, but he complains that I am needy. He also doesn't call or txt as much as he used 2.
What are Some Signs that Your Boyfriend Wants to Break UP?
i don't think he wants to break up. i think he is just stressed out with the new responsibility and he is upset that you ask him why he changed, which makes him feel like he screwed up...i understand you, i know you love him and miss him, and you are not needy, you just need him because you love him, but guys are like that, the more you ask them to do something, the more they feel like you are pushing them, and the more they do the opposite.
so my advice to you would be to tell him that you love him and miss him a lot and that you would love to see him as much as possible, but you understand that he is busy and that he is going through a lot. explain to him that you are willing to wait and be supportive and understanding and finish with a ';but babe please try to make some time for us because i really miss you and i love to be around you';
feeling that you will love him even if he is too busy, and that you understand his situation , will make him try even more to see you because then he feels like he is doing it FOR you not because ';he has to';
Good luck honey :)What are Some Signs that Your Boyfriend Wants to Break UP?
Hello,
Try not to bother him too much. He may be just overwhelmed with work is all. You would be surprised how people deal with their feelings. Give him some space and don't pressure him too much. He is already saying you are needy, so please try not to push it. In the meantime; I suggest you visit this website, it has helped a few other ladies.
http://getyourexloveback.com
sounds like he has no idea.
I just broke up with my boyfriend....?
I just broke up with my boyfriend of ten months. It was a really sad thing for me we were both nice loyal people who cared a lot about each other i definately was attached to him and he was a big part of my life we just weren't the right match for each other. We had had a nice time together in the beginnign of the week and he basically didnt see it coming. We knew we were going to break up before i went to college at the end of the summer but he wasnt expecting it this soon, neither was i really but it had just run its course. With that said it is really hard to just hold the responsibility of thinking ';you did this'; and things like that it could have happened anytime and wasnt really linked to if we were getting along or not just in general as people i knew he wasn't ';the one'; He still meant something to me though and one big problem is that i was moving out of my moms house and had nowhere to put about 12 boxes of my things and so i put them in his house. We broke up 4 days ago and theres no rush for me to get my things but whats the best way to do this. We don't talk at all but were not mad at each other i sord of wish we would have spent one last nice day together before we said good bye just at the time it was really hard and i didnt think it was a good idea. If you break up with your boyfriend but are still ok to talk and get along fine is it bad to talk here and there and check in on each other or is that just going to make it harder or toy with his emotions. I guess im asking what is the right distance that i should take? I just feel bad for breaking his heart I cared about him and would never want to hurt him so it sucks cuz in a breakup its just unavoidable. Is anyone else going through this? How do you cope with knowing that you really hurt someone you cared about and can't really do anything about it?I just broke up with my boyfriend....?
you can still talk..and even hang out..
as long as there's no kisses..or lovey talk
unleeeess you want to be together again..but if you're sure he's not the one..don't kiss him, or lead him on in any way..
establish you still care for him, but in a more friend kind of way..it can work :)
you can still talk..and even hang out..
as long as there's no kisses..or lovey talk
unleeeess you want to be together again..but if you're sure he's not the one..don't kiss him, or lead him on in any way..
establish you still care for him, but in a more friend kind of way..it can work :)
What does it mean when your Boyfriend is embarrassed to do things with you?
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for months. We've met each others friends, and parents, and we've been fine. We like each other a lot. But there's something that i just don't understand. Whenever we go out, we always goof around and hold hands etc. But when it comes to kissing, he says he doesn't like to in public because it embarrasses him. And one time we went to this park, and i was trying to teach him how to dance for this ball that was coming up, and he said he didn't want to dance in public because it embarrassed him. Even when there's no one around he still says it embarrasses him to make out in public. I don't really understand. Because he obviously likes me a lot. I feel like I'm not good enough sometimes, and that maybe hes not only embarrassed of doing certain things in public, but that he's embarrassed of me. Is there any guys that are like this? and if so why? are you embarrassed of doing certain things in public? or are you just embarrassed of the girl you're with?What does it mean when your Boyfriend is embarrassed to do things with you?
that he is just embarrassed of doing things in public. some of us are just that way.What does it mean when your Boyfriend is embarrassed to do things with you?
Most people are more reserved in public and prefer to keep some things private. Look around you and I am sure you will notice that the general public do not hang on each other and kiss in public. About the only place I would expect to see people kissing in public is at the airport, etc. usually when parting ways. I do not think your boy friend has a problem. I think he doesn't like making a show of himself in public.
ask him ... some people are simply uncomfortable doing things in public ... maybe he does not approve of public displays of affection ... decide if you can live with that ...
that he is just embarrassed of doing things in public. some of us are just that way.What does it mean when your Boyfriend is embarrassed to do things with you?
Most people are more reserved in public and prefer to keep some things private. Look around you and I am sure you will notice that the general public do not hang on each other and kiss in public. About the only place I would expect to see people kissing in public is at the airport, etc. usually when parting ways. I do not think your boy friend has a problem. I think he doesn't like making a show of himself in public.
ask him ... some people are simply uncomfortable doing things in public ... maybe he does not approve of public displays of affection ... decide if you can live with that ...
Just broke up with my best friend turned boyfriend?
He was my best friend for a couple years, then he asked me out so we went out and now we basically broke up cause he told his parents about us and they said that it was the wrong time, and i know he respects his parents so we talked about it, he was asking me what we should do, so just for the sake of it i said i guess we shouldn't do this ne more cause even if were dating secretly, he would probably actually tell them the truth. yes obviously i find it kinda annoying that he has to tell them the truth everytime cause me and my family are not close in that way at all. but i respect his respect for them. he said how he doesn't want to either but we ended it. now i just feel really like it won't be the same and it feels worse than just breaking up with your boyfriend cause he used to be your best friend. i sort of want either things to be the way it used to be, he says the same but when we talk its just different. how and what should i do to make things better between us?Just broke up with my best friend turned boyfriend?
I know exactly what you mean because my best friend and I barely started going out and we were best friends for a very long time. And I can relate to you on the fact that it feels different now that you guys broke up. lol I dont expect this to be the best answer ever, but, I think maybe you should just talk to him privately and tell him that you respect his decision to tell his parents, but that you have a different perspective. Tell him that even though he respects his parents, that sometimes they can't agree on everything and that some day he will end up doing something they wont want him to do. But he has to take that chance because he loves you. You are his best friend and he trusts you so there has to be communication and he can't please his parents in everything. I imagine he's old enough to know what he's doing. He's not disrespecting them just because he doesn't take their suggestion. Whatever he does, is on him, now. And if he wants to be with you and risk whatever his parents think he might risk, then he will. Cause he loves you!Just broke up with my best friend turned boyfriend?
If you were best fiends I really don't see why his parents don't want you two to be together. Is it because of your age? How old are you? Anyways, in time things will go back to normal, if it is that you don't wanna keep dating. If you do, then i suggest talking to his parents as a couple and asking them to respect what you two have.
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seems u still like him try getting back
together tell him ur feelings u might be
back together by the end of the week
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Well, If he Loves you, or even likes u alot, he shouldnt care about what his parents think. I mean...its his life not theirs and u guys are old enough to make good desicions! He won't at least talk to his parents about the situation...He doesnt deserve you and there is someone out there who does...
Lots of Luck!
I know exactly what you mean because my best friend and I barely started going out and we were best friends for a very long time. And I can relate to you on the fact that it feels different now that you guys broke up. lol I dont expect this to be the best answer ever, but, I think maybe you should just talk to him privately and tell him that you respect his decision to tell his parents, but that you have a different perspective. Tell him that even though he respects his parents, that sometimes they can't agree on everything and that some day he will end up doing something they wont want him to do. But he has to take that chance because he loves you. You are his best friend and he trusts you so there has to be communication and he can't please his parents in everything. I imagine he's old enough to know what he's doing. He's not disrespecting them just because he doesn't take their suggestion. Whatever he does, is on him, now. And if he wants to be with you and risk whatever his parents think he might risk, then he will. Cause he loves you!Just broke up with my best friend turned boyfriend?
If you were best fiends I really don't see why his parents don't want you two to be together. Is it because of your age? How old are you? Anyways, in time things will go back to normal, if it is that you don't wanna keep dating. If you do, then i suggest talking to his parents as a couple and asking them to respect what you two have.
i don't thing u should of broke up it
seems u still like him try getting back
together tell him ur feelings u might be
back together by the end of the week
hope this helps parents sometimes need a
different point of view
you could tell him he gotten colder ... and that it\'s hurting you alot .. and he should do something about it
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Well, If he Loves you, or even likes u alot, he shouldnt care about what his parents think. I mean...its his life not theirs and u guys are old enough to make good desicions! He won't at least talk to his parents about the situation...He doesnt deserve you and there is someone out there who does...
Lots of Luck!
Is it wrong for your boyfriend to tell you when his going to break up wit you?
okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and when he first asked me out he told me when he was going to break up with me which is four years but he goes to a different school and my best friend who is a huge flirt she lives now in his apartment complex and she just broke up with her boyfriend but told me about how she makes him laugh more then i do and that she spends more time with him then i do and that i should just break up with him but i don't know i'm honestly lost and confuse.........me and him do a lot of stuff together but i still don't know it keeps ticking in my mind that he's going to break up with me anytime soon sooooo i'm just confuse i was wondering wat you think
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Dump him if he says his gunna dump u in 4years or wateva he obviuosly dnt like u much if he knows wen his gunna end it cos feelings can change in that time he could stop likin u or may hav never liked u. No guy shpould tell a chik wen there gunna dump them.Is it wrong for your boyfriend to tell you when his going to break up wit you?
Break up with him, why wait for the shoe to drop? Life is too short to wait around for other people to ';do things'; to you. Be too busy to care.
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Take a look at what you typed. The answer is RIGHT there. It seems they're trying to break you off and be together. The friend is going to end up with him. I mean WHO THE HELL TELLS you when they'll break up with you...that's retarded.
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Dump him if he says his gunna dump u in 4years or wateva he obviuosly dnt like u much if he knows wen his gunna end it cos feelings can change in that time he could stop likin u or may hav never liked u. No guy shpould tell a chik wen there gunna dump them.Is it wrong for your boyfriend to tell you when his going to break up wit you?
Break up with him, why wait for the shoe to drop? Life is too short to wait around for other people to ';do things'; to you. Be too busy to care.
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Take a look at what you typed. The answer is RIGHT there. It seems they're trying to break you off and be together. The friend is going to end up with him. I mean WHO THE HELL TELLS you when they'll break up with you...that's retarded.
If your girlfriend/boyfriend said he/she wanted to make out with u as a 7.5 from 1 - 10, how would you take it?
And would you try to make the number go up and how?If your girlfriend/boyfriend said he/she wanted to make out with u as a 7.5 from 1 - 10, how would you take it?
what? you can rate make out sessions?
well id want mine to be a freakin 10 baby!
kiss her REAAAAALLLLY well, and touch and stuff, maybe even try to take off her shirtIf your girlfriend/boyfriend said he/she wanted to make out with u as a 7.5 from 1 - 10, how would you take it?
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what? you can rate make out sessions?
well id want mine to be a freakin 10 baby!
kiss her REAAAAALLLLY well, and touch and stuff, maybe even try to take off her shirtIf your girlfriend/boyfriend said he/she wanted to make out with u as a 7.5 from 1 - 10, how would you take it?
Plastic surgery? It could work.
Girls: taking back an ex-boyfriend you broke up with.?
I know the usual answer is to just move on if your girlfriend breaks up with you. Especially in my case since she broke up with me because she felt I didn't really appreciate her and do things for her a typical boyfriend would do so she slowly lost feelings for me. I know you can't make someone fall in love with you by force, and even if she likes me, the mere fact we were in a relationship and she called things off would probably be enough for her to never want to date me again.
But since, in life, anything is possible, and I've seen it happen, just thought I'd get some constructive thoughts from people who have experience or just know-how they want to share. I've read all the posts from other postings that say ';move on'; and ';get on with your life'; so comments other than stuff like that would be helpful. I do plan to move on with my life because she may never come back, but compared to previous girlfriends, I felt a special chemistry with this one and regret that I wasn't able to do more to hold on to her. Not really an excuse, but I just moved to a new country, started a new job, and things were busy and stressful, so timing played a part (when we first met I had more time because it was before I started working and so we did more fun stuff together, but once I started work, it kind of went downhill from there). And the hard part is that I started to get the hang of work just in the past few weeks so was planning on making it up to her with some special events planned, but the damage had already been done. Any stories or tips from girls who have either taken back a boyfriend in such a situation or just sharing how they might take back an ex-boyfriend under certain circumstances would be helpful.
I think right now she just needs some time away because she's OK with me calling but would prefer not to meet up for the time being because she says it would be too hard for her. I did send one e-mail and make one call when we first broke up asking to get back together (I know, shouldn't have), but afterwards sent an e-mail saying sorry for making it harder than it is and let's take some time off until we've sorted things out and can be friends. I'm hoping I can make contact as a friend in a few weeks and maybe ';rekindle'; some of what we had, like people suggest, but would appreciate any thoughts. Some have suggested writing a nice thoughtful e-mail from my heart, but I get the feeling even that would be too much communication right now when she just wants to be able to sort things out in her heart.
Also, any thoughts regarding how she probably views me right now would be helpful. Girls, in this situation, are you angry at your ex-boyfriend somewhat? Sad that it's over but glad you won't have to feel sad about the relationship constantly? Confused? Relieved? I did a lot of nice things for her, too, and was always there for her and we never fought and I always made her laugh, but I think by not making her feel special and paying particular attention to big events like her birthday (I took her out to dinner but even I admit it wasn't planned too well or that thoughtful), she felt under-appreciated, which made her sad. Like the scene in Oceans 11 when George Clooney asks Julia Roberts about Benedict whom she was with then: ';Does he make you laugh?'; Her reply, ';He doesn't make me cry.'; Yes, yes, all regrets a little too late, and because I love her, I'm willing to let her move on with her life, but any ideas to help me understand what/how she's thinking right now and what could be done (even if remote) would be much appreciated. Thank you all in advance.Girls: taking back an ex-boyfriend you broke up with.?
I have some personal experience with this. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because I felt that he didn't appreciate me at all and that he was always ignoring me so he could play video games. I ended going back out with him after like two weeks of being broken up because he asked me out and I thought that I still liked him. Turns out that I was wrong, I ended up breaking up with him again a few months later for the same exact reasons and a few more. Don't try to get her to go back out with you. It's not a good idea. Give her time and maybe she'll realize that she wants to be with you, if that does happen then go for it. But don't try to get her to go back out with you. It will only end again, and would probably be worse than the first break up.
But since, in life, anything is possible, and I've seen it happen, just thought I'd get some constructive thoughts from people who have experience or just know-how they want to share. I've read all the posts from other postings that say ';move on'; and ';get on with your life'; so comments other than stuff like that would be helpful. I do plan to move on with my life because she may never come back, but compared to previous girlfriends, I felt a special chemistry with this one and regret that I wasn't able to do more to hold on to her. Not really an excuse, but I just moved to a new country, started a new job, and things were busy and stressful, so timing played a part (when we first met I had more time because it was before I started working and so we did more fun stuff together, but once I started work, it kind of went downhill from there). And the hard part is that I started to get the hang of work just in the past few weeks so was planning on making it up to her with some special events planned, but the damage had already been done. Any stories or tips from girls who have either taken back a boyfriend in such a situation or just sharing how they might take back an ex-boyfriend under certain circumstances would be helpful.
I think right now she just needs some time away because she's OK with me calling but would prefer not to meet up for the time being because she says it would be too hard for her. I did send one e-mail and make one call when we first broke up asking to get back together (I know, shouldn't have), but afterwards sent an e-mail saying sorry for making it harder than it is and let's take some time off until we've sorted things out and can be friends. I'm hoping I can make contact as a friend in a few weeks and maybe ';rekindle'; some of what we had, like people suggest, but would appreciate any thoughts. Some have suggested writing a nice thoughtful e-mail from my heart, but I get the feeling even that would be too much communication right now when she just wants to be able to sort things out in her heart.
Also, any thoughts regarding how she probably views me right now would be helpful. Girls, in this situation, are you angry at your ex-boyfriend somewhat? Sad that it's over but glad you won't have to feel sad about the relationship constantly? Confused? Relieved? I did a lot of nice things for her, too, and was always there for her and we never fought and I always made her laugh, but I think by not making her feel special and paying particular attention to big events like her birthday (I took her out to dinner but even I admit it wasn't planned too well or that thoughtful), she felt under-appreciated, which made her sad. Like the scene in Oceans 11 when George Clooney asks Julia Roberts about Benedict whom she was with then: ';Does he make you laugh?'; Her reply, ';He doesn't make me cry.'; Yes, yes, all regrets a little too late, and because I love her, I'm willing to let her move on with her life, but any ideas to help me understand what/how she's thinking right now and what could be done (even if remote) would be much appreciated. Thank you all in advance.Girls: taking back an ex-boyfriend you broke up with.?
I have some personal experience with this. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because I felt that he didn't appreciate me at all and that he was always ignoring me so he could play video games. I ended going back out with him after like two weeks of being broken up because he asked me out and I thought that I still liked him. Turns out that I was wrong, I ended up breaking up with him again a few months later for the same exact reasons and a few more. Don't try to get her to go back out with you. It's not a good idea. Give her time and maybe she'll realize that she wants to be with you, if that does happen then go for it. But don't try to get her to go back out with you. It will only end again, and would probably be worse than the first break up.
How do you get your boyfriend to open up more?
When he seems to almost be like a closed book? He tells me he's in love with me, we live togethar, he enjoys spending time with me, it just feels different from when we first met. I kind of feel like I have to put most of the effort out in the relationship. I even always have to make the first move for sex, it's very rare that he makes the first move. What gives? If he loves me so much, why doesn't he show it more?How do you get your boyfriend to open up more?
you guys have entered that comfort phase of your relationship . it happens to everyone. you need to spice things p a little. cook a gourmet dinner and have a large bouquet of flowers sitting in the middle of the table with you sitting there naked when he gets home from work. afterwords talk to him about it let him know what he is going to be missing if he doenst straighten up.How do you get your boyfriend to open up more?
Usually if the woman has to initiate sex most of the time then that means the man is gay and hiding behind the woman(the ';beard';). Maybe he is a closed book because he is afraid of you or anyone else finding out his true sexuality.
take a break from him, go to another town may be for a while..
let him realise that he s missin somethin in his life like somethin very special as you are...
Guys always take it for granted when u become more sweet to them and they only realise your importance once u give them a break... if he really loves you he ll come after you and with the realisation that he will never be so numb again...
People will do what ever you allow them to do. By always puttin the effort in and always makin the first move he expects you to do this all the time. Step back a bit, let him see what its like not to have your full attention. spend some more time with ur friends and enjoyin ur own interests. When he sees that you're not gonna run after him all the time he'll realise what it might be like to be without you.
If it doesnt change his mind and he's happy to keep goin in a half hearted relationship then I'm afraid to say he's lost interest. Find yourself a man who will put as much time and effort into you as you do to them.
must admit i never made the first move sex wise my hubby always instigate it but that what works for us odviously it dont for you .........i would personally feel abit unwanted i agree thou you cant change ppl or mould them to be what you want .........and yes maybe he does think your wrapped round his fingers id get tough pull ya weight or out .
A lot of men are like that. You can't change people - so either let him be him - or move on.
you guys have entered that comfort phase of your relationship . it happens to everyone. you need to spice things p a little. cook a gourmet dinner and have a large bouquet of flowers sitting in the middle of the table with you sitting there naked when he gets home from work. afterwords talk to him about it let him know what he is going to be missing if he doenst straighten up.How do you get your boyfriend to open up more?
Usually if the woman has to initiate sex most of the time then that means the man is gay and hiding behind the woman(the ';beard';). Maybe he is a closed book because he is afraid of you or anyone else finding out his true sexuality.
take a break from him, go to another town may be for a while..
let him realise that he s missin somethin in his life like somethin very special as you are...
Guys always take it for granted when u become more sweet to them and they only realise your importance once u give them a break... if he really loves you he ll come after you and with the realisation that he will never be so numb again...
People will do what ever you allow them to do. By always puttin the effort in and always makin the first move he expects you to do this all the time. Step back a bit, let him see what its like not to have your full attention. spend some more time with ur friends and enjoyin ur own interests. When he sees that you're not gonna run after him all the time he'll realise what it might be like to be without you.
If it doesnt change his mind and he's happy to keep goin in a half hearted relationship then I'm afraid to say he's lost interest. Find yourself a man who will put as much time and effort into you as you do to them.
must admit i never made the first move sex wise my hubby always instigate it but that what works for us odviously it dont for you .........i would personally feel abit unwanted i agree thou you cant change ppl or mould them to be what you want .........and yes maybe he does think your wrapped round his fingers id get tough pull ya weight or out .
A lot of men are like that. You can't change people - so either let him be him - or move on.
Getting back together with boyfriend you broke up with?
I know the usual answer is to just move on if your girlfriend breaks up with you. Especially in my case since she broke up with me because she felt I didn't really appreciate her and do things for her a typical boyfriend would do so she slowly lost feelings for me. I know you can't make someone fall in love with you by force, and even if she likes me, the mere fact we were in a relationship and she called things off would probably be enough for her to never want to date me again.
But since, in life, anything is possible, and I've seen it happen, just thought I'd get some constructive thoughts from people who have experience or just know-how they want to share. I've read all the posts from other postings that say ';move on'; and ';get on with your life'; so comments other than stuff like that would be helpful. I do plan to move on with my life because she may never come back, but compared to previous girlfriends, I felt a special chemistry with this one and regret that I wasn't able to do more to hold on to her. Not really an excuse, but I just moved to a new country, started a new job, and things were busy and stressful, so timing played a part (when we first met I had more time because it was before I started working and so we did more fun stuff together, but once I started work, it kind of went downhill from there). And the hard part is that I started to get the hang of work just in the past few weeks so was planning on making it up to her with some special events planned, but the damage had already been done. Any stories or tips from girls who have either taken back a boyfriend in such a situation or just sharing how they might take back an ex-boyfriend under certain circumstances would be helpful.
I think right now she just needs some time away because she's OK with me calling but would prefer not to meet up for the time being because she says it would be too hard for her. I did send one e-mail and make one call when we first broke up asking to get back together (I know, shouldn't have), but afterwards sent an e-mail saying sorry for making it harder than it is and let's take some time off until we've sorted things out and can be friends. I'm hoping I can make contact as a friend in a few weeks and maybe ';rekindle'; some of what we had, like people suggest, but would appreciate any thoughts. Some have suggested writing a nice thoughtful e-mail from my heart, but I get the feeling even that would be too much communication right now when she just wants to be able to sort things out in her heart.
Also, any thoughts regarding how she probably views me right now would be helpful. Girls, in this situation, are you angry at your ex-boyfriend somewhat? Sad that it's over but glad you won't have to feel sad about the relationship constantly? Confused? Relieved? I did a lot of nice things for her, too, and was always there for her and we never fought and I always made her laugh, but I think by not making her feel special and paying particular attention to big events like her birthday (I took her out to dinner but even I admit it wasn't planned too well or that thoughtful), she felt under-appreciated, which made her sad. Like the scene in Oceans 11 when George Clooney asks Julia Roberts about Benedict whom she was with then: ';Does he make you laugh?'; Her reply, ';He doesn't make me cry.'; Yes, yes, all regrets a little too late, and because I love her, I'm willing to let her move on with her life, but any ideas to help me understand what/how she's thinking right now and what could be done (even if remote) would be much appreciated. Thank you all in advance.Getting back together with boyfriend you broke up with?
Hey there. You sound like a sweet guy with good intentions. It sounds like timing did indeed play a part. I don't know how long you were going out, or if there was more to the story, but here's what I think based on what you said.
Maybe she did honestly just feel like you weren't there for her, or maybe she had other issues that she didn't want to bring up, and that was just the scapegoat. I think maybe one more email could be justified, to be honest with her. Tell her that you think she's special and really worth it, and that if she'll give you the chance, you'll try your hardest. I think you have one shot (you may have already used it, I don't know). But explain that you really think she is worth the work, and that your new job was just getting in the way, and if she wouldn't mind, you want another chance.
I know you think that might be too much, but it's your last chance. If she says no, accept that and don't pester her. She'll appreciate you more for it. Take the time to think about what you can do better in the future, whether it's with her or with someone else. I know your heart must be hurting, and I'm sorry for that. It's hard to lose something you think is special. But honesty, respect, and love are your best friends. I hope this helped. I'll say a little prayer for you -- good luck. :)Getting back together with boyfriend you broke up with?
In my opinion from Dating in the past re-dating someone is a big NO NO. It never works out because your trust levels are never the same. And you usually are suspicious of what the other one might be doing.
Hope this helps
Trent
But since, in life, anything is possible, and I've seen it happen, just thought I'd get some constructive thoughts from people who have experience or just know-how they want to share. I've read all the posts from other postings that say ';move on'; and ';get on with your life'; so comments other than stuff like that would be helpful. I do plan to move on with my life because she may never come back, but compared to previous girlfriends, I felt a special chemistry with this one and regret that I wasn't able to do more to hold on to her. Not really an excuse, but I just moved to a new country, started a new job, and things were busy and stressful, so timing played a part (when we first met I had more time because it was before I started working and so we did more fun stuff together, but once I started work, it kind of went downhill from there). And the hard part is that I started to get the hang of work just in the past few weeks so was planning on making it up to her with some special events planned, but the damage had already been done. Any stories or tips from girls who have either taken back a boyfriend in such a situation or just sharing how they might take back an ex-boyfriend under certain circumstances would be helpful.
I think right now she just needs some time away because she's OK with me calling but would prefer not to meet up for the time being because she says it would be too hard for her. I did send one e-mail and make one call when we first broke up asking to get back together (I know, shouldn't have), but afterwards sent an e-mail saying sorry for making it harder than it is and let's take some time off until we've sorted things out and can be friends. I'm hoping I can make contact as a friend in a few weeks and maybe ';rekindle'; some of what we had, like people suggest, but would appreciate any thoughts. Some have suggested writing a nice thoughtful e-mail from my heart, but I get the feeling even that would be too much communication right now when she just wants to be able to sort things out in her heart.
Also, any thoughts regarding how she probably views me right now would be helpful. Girls, in this situation, are you angry at your ex-boyfriend somewhat? Sad that it's over but glad you won't have to feel sad about the relationship constantly? Confused? Relieved? I did a lot of nice things for her, too, and was always there for her and we never fought and I always made her laugh, but I think by not making her feel special and paying particular attention to big events like her birthday (I took her out to dinner but even I admit it wasn't planned too well or that thoughtful), she felt under-appreciated, which made her sad. Like the scene in Oceans 11 when George Clooney asks Julia Roberts about Benedict whom she was with then: ';Does he make you laugh?'; Her reply, ';He doesn't make me cry.'; Yes, yes, all regrets a little too late, and because I love her, I'm willing to let her move on with her life, but any ideas to help me understand what/how she's thinking right now and what could be done (even if remote) would be much appreciated. Thank you all in advance.Getting back together with boyfriend you broke up with?
Hey there. You sound like a sweet guy with good intentions. It sounds like timing did indeed play a part. I don't know how long you were going out, or if there was more to the story, but here's what I think based on what you said.
Maybe she did honestly just feel like you weren't there for her, or maybe she had other issues that she didn't want to bring up, and that was just the scapegoat. I think maybe one more email could be justified, to be honest with her. Tell her that you think she's special and really worth it, and that if she'll give you the chance, you'll try your hardest. I think you have one shot (you may have already used it, I don't know). But explain that you really think she is worth the work, and that your new job was just getting in the way, and if she wouldn't mind, you want another chance.
I know you think that might be too much, but it's your last chance. If she says no, accept that and don't pester her. She'll appreciate you more for it. Take the time to think about what you can do better in the future, whether it's with her or with someone else. I know your heart must be hurting, and I'm sorry for that. It's hard to lose something you think is special. But honesty, respect, and love are your best friends. I hope this helped. I'll say a little prayer for you -- good luck. :)Getting back together with boyfriend you broke up with?
In my opinion from Dating in the past re-dating someone is a big NO NO. It never works out because your trust levels are never the same. And you usually are suspicious of what the other one might be doing.
Hope this helps
Trent
Just broke up with my bestfriend turned boyfriend?
He was my best friend for a couple years, then he asked me out so we went out and now we basically broke up cause he told his parents about us and they said that it was the wrong time, and i know he respects his parents so we talked about it, he was asking me what we should do, so just for the sake of it i said i guess we shouldn't do this ne more cause even if were dating secretly, he would probably actually tell them the truth. yes obviously i find it kinda annoying that he has to tell them the truth everytime cause me and my family are not close in that way at all. but i respect his respect for them. he said how he doesn't want to either but we ended it. now i just feel really like it won't be the same and it feels worse than just breaking up with your boyfriend cause he used to be your best friend. i sort of want either things to be the way it used to be, he says the same but when we talk its just different. how and what should i do to make things better between us?Just broke up with my bestfriend turned boyfriend?
If you are in a true relationship as a boyfriend/girlfriend couple, the other person should also be your best friend during the relationship. There is no need to lose that friendship other than the fact that most young people are not aware of what a real relationship is. I don't mean to sound like I'm insulting you so please don't take it that way. When you are young, you are still immature in many ways. Knowing and understanding what real love is, is one example. The fact that you are being respectful (both of you) of his parents wishes is showing more maturity than most children your ages. You should be proud of yourself for that, and so should he. I am sorry that your relationship with your parents isn't as strong as his and his families are. Just remember that you shouldn't lose a friend in this, just the young love that you two have shared has changed a little for now. I don't suggest sneaking around, because his parents will dislike you for that behavior. Show them the respect that you are currently showing them, and at some point you and your boyfriend will find that his parents are more receptive to you and the dating aspect, and will eventually welcome you. You sound like a bright young lady and I think that you will find in the long run they are trying to protect the both of you.Just broke up with my bestfriend turned boyfriend?
Usually when you cross the line from friendship to romance, there's no going back to being just friends.
Keep ur friendship strong by talking through the romantic feelings y'all still have for each other. Eventually when ur older his parents wouldn't mind u two dating. But for now just honor their wishes, and keep talking and talk urselves through it.
If you are in a true relationship as a boyfriend/girlfriend couple, the other person should also be your best friend during the relationship. There is no need to lose that friendship other than the fact that most young people are not aware of what a real relationship is. I don't mean to sound like I'm insulting you so please don't take it that way. When you are young, you are still immature in many ways. Knowing and understanding what real love is, is one example. The fact that you are being respectful (both of you) of his parents wishes is showing more maturity than most children your ages. You should be proud of yourself for that, and so should he. I am sorry that your relationship with your parents isn't as strong as his and his families are. Just remember that you shouldn't lose a friend in this, just the young love that you two have shared has changed a little for now. I don't suggest sneaking around, because his parents will dislike you for that behavior. Show them the respect that you are currently showing them, and at some point you and your boyfriend will find that his parents are more receptive to you and the dating aspect, and will eventually welcome you. You sound like a bright young lady and I think that you will find in the long run they are trying to protect the both of you.Just broke up with my bestfriend turned boyfriend?
Usually when you cross the line from friendship to romance, there's no going back to being just friends.
Keep ur friendship strong by talking through the romantic feelings y'all still have for each other. Eventually when ur older his parents wouldn't mind u two dating. But for now just honor their wishes, and keep talking and talk urselves through it.
How can i make it up to my boyfriend, how can i show i'm sorry?
me and my bf had a BIG argument last night and we're still not talking properly today. How can i make everything right again... how can i show him that i'm really sorry and i really, really love him with all my heart?
i haven't got any money (as it's the end of the month!!) so going out somewhere or buying him something is not an option and i can't cook him something tonight as he gets home late so we both will have already eaten.
So do you have any other suggestions of something special/nice/loving and romantic i could do for him to show him i do still love him and i do still care??
serious answers only please, and no sexual ideas as i can do that AFTER i have done the 'nice/sweet' thing for him lol (if it comes to that)!
Please help me, i want him to feel really loved and special and i want him to know i'm truely sorry. Thanks for your help!!How can i make it up to my boyfriend, how can i show i'm sorry?
Wear little and hand him a paddle or hairbrush when he comes homeHow can i make it up to my boyfriend, how can i show i'm sorry?
put him i the bath tub candles wash his bodi when he get out dry him off make sure u got yo freakum dress on put him in bed and do wat it do.. Hope it Helps
Yes you could always write a note but what guy will really take the time to read it....I suggest maybe having his favorite dessert ready for him when he comes home or favorite night time snack and you two can sit down and talk and tell him you wanna tell him your true feelings before he says a word. after explaining everything maybe he'll be more willing to talk about his feelings and you guys can work everything out and you can tell him when you get paid and have the money you will buy the stuff to make his favorite dinner for him as an added make-up for you two. I wish you the best of luck! Hope he'll understand and not be mad for too much longer!
How about making mini posters (Use printer paper) from the front door onward with ';Sorry'; on one ';I love you'; on another one and so forth and when he gets to you ... Put your best smile on and give him a big hug. Tell him you are so very sorry and can he please give you a big hug back to show he accepts your apology. Take it from there ...
Best wishes
hmmm...write different stuff...and leave them where u know he'll find them...write naughty,sexy or romatic stuff...and dont forget to write that u're sorry...will bring a smile to his face for sure !
gudluck !!
the best gift of all is you saying sorry to him...and ADMIT it..one hug and a kiss...that's enough for me
Why don't you just tell him you are really sorry. Actions speak louder than words but sometimes words have to do. Tell him like you told us ';I love you so much and you are so special';. Try to look as nice as you can (its nice when a girl wants to look nice even though you aren't going out) and be extra cuddly. Stroke his ego some too, always makes me feel better
Have a bubble bath waiting, with candles and a cd playing in the background, some wine if you have it...and you in something sexy no man can resist !! Hope it all goes ok for you x
Honestly? Just tell him, tell him sincerely that you are sorry and love him a lot, use the best words you can come up with and don't hold back. Being told by someone that you are loved and that all is ok can mean an enormous amount.
Have a bath ready for him light some candles. Tell him how sorry you are and if he forgives you then maybe he will invite you to join him in the bath. Good luck.
Write him a letter, explaining your feelings, at the end of the letter offer a romantic make up. When he get's home ask him to read it. Then go put on something sexy.
It depends on ur creativity!!!
Have you got time to write him a letter / poem or song explaining how sorry u are how much he means to you??
You could always make his fav dinner for him, 2moro night!!
I've learned that the best way to make up for a big argument is to look him sqaure in the eye and say I'm sorry. An apology can go along way, even if you were both wrong. Good luck
whipped cream bikini and wait for him in bed...i know you said no sexual things..but i think that is the only thing that will make him feel better.
take him for walk, holding his hand in the moonlight and talk to him gentle and soft, remember what had excited him before in the beginning og the relationship, and try to repeat it , may be in a different style this time, and win his mood when u finish the park walk. good luck.
It is always nice to have all chores done by the time he gets home. Who doesn't like to come home to a clean house?
Then maybe a nice back rub. Then tell him that you understand that you both work and get stressed out, but you just want him to know that you appreciate him.
Hope this helps.
clean up his house.
and of cos add some fragrace to set the mood.
Well you didnt expain why the heck hes mad to begin with.So it must have been something pretty bad.I cant suggest anything seen as i have no clue what happend.Next time think before talking.
Get a nice bottle of wine and a dvd and invote him to join you. Then you can cosy up on the sofa and watch the movie.
What was the argument about? if you can tell me that would help me give you a good answer....let me know!
Tell him your true feelings that might work.
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i haven't got any money (as it's the end of the month!!) so going out somewhere or buying him something is not an option and i can't cook him something tonight as he gets home late so we both will have already eaten.
So do you have any other suggestions of something special/nice/loving and romantic i could do for him to show him i do still love him and i do still care??
serious answers only please, and no sexual ideas as i can do that AFTER i have done the 'nice/sweet' thing for him lol (if it comes to that)!
Please help me, i want him to feel really loved and special and i want him to know i'm truely sorry. Thanks for your help!!How can i make it up to my boyfriend, how can i show i'm sorry?
Wear little and hand him a paddle or hairbrush when he comes homeHow can i make it up to my boyfriend, how can i show i'm sorry?
put him i the bath tub candles wash his bodi when he get out dry him off make sure u got yo freakum dress on put him in bed and do wat it do.. Hope it Helps
Yes you could always write a note but what guy will really take the time to read it....I suggest maybe having his favorite dessert ready for him when he comes home or favorite night time snack and you two can sit down and talk and tell him you wanna tell him your true feelings before he says a word. after explaining everything maybe he'll be more willing to talk about his feelings and you guys can work everything out and you can tell him when you get paid and have the money you will buy the stuff to make his favorite dinner for him as an added make-up for you two. I wish you the best of luck! Hope he'll understand and not be mad for too much longer!
How about making mini posters (Use printer paper) from the front door onward with ';Sorry'; on one ';I love you'; on another one and so forth and when he gets to you ... Put your best smile on and give him a big hug. Tell him you are so very sorry and can he please give you a big hug back to show he accepts your apology. Take it from there ...
Best wishes
hmmm...write different stuff...and leave them where u know he'll find them...write naughty,sexy or romatic stuff...and dont forget to write that u're sorry...will bring a smile to his face for sure !
gudluck !!
the best gift of all is you saying sorry to him...and ADMIT it..one hug and a kiss...that's enough for me
Why don't you just tell him you are really sorry. Actions speak louder than words but sometimes words have to do. Tell him like you told us ';I love you so much and you are so special';. Try to look as nice as you can (its nice when a girl wants to look nice even though you aren't going out) and be extra cuddly. Stroke his ego some too, always makes me feel better
Have a bubble bath waiting, with candles and a cd playing in the background, some wine if you have it...and you in something sexy no man can resist !! Hope it all goes ok for you x
Honestly? Just tell him, tell him sincerely that you are sorry and love him a lot, use the best words you can come up with and don't hold back. Being told by someone that you are loved and that all is ok can mean an enormous amount.
Have a bath ready for him light some candles. Tell him how sorry you are and if he forgives you then maybe he will invite you to join him in the bath. Good luck.
Write him a letter, explaining your feelings, at the end of the letter offer a romantic make up. When he get's home ask him to read it. Then go put on something sexy.
It depends on ur creativity!!!
Have you got time to write him a letter / poem or song explaining how sorry u are how much he means to you??
You could always make his fav dinner for him, 2moro night!!
I've learned that the best way to make up for a big argument is to look him sqaure in the eye and say I'm sorry. An apology can go along way, even if you were both wrong. Good luck
whipped cream bikini and wait for him in bed...i know you said no sexual things..but i think that is the only thing that will make him feel better.
take him for walk, holding his hand in the moonlight and talk to him gentle and soft, remember what had excited him before in the beginning og the relationship, and try to repeat it , may be in a different style this time, and win his mood when u finish the park walk. good luck.
It is always nice to have all chores done by the time he gets home. Who doesn't like to come home to a clean house?
Then maybe a nice back rub. Then tell him that you understand that you both work and get stressed out, but you just want him to know that you appreciate him.
Hope this helps.
clean up his house.
and of cos add some fragrace to set the mood.
Well you didnt expain why the heck hes mad to begin with.So it must have been something pretty bad.I cant suggest anything seen as i have no clue what happend.Next time think before talking.
Get a nice bottle of wine and a dvd and invote him to join you. Then you can cosy up on the sofa and watch the movie.
What was the argument about? if you can tell me that would help me give you a good answer....let me know!
Tell him your true feelings that might work.
candels and yea
How do you balance boyfriend vs. your friends?
I know the first rule when it comes to friends that friends are important in a woman's life than a boyfriend. But the last relationship I had was very frustrating yet stressed out. When I had a bf about three years ago I thought this could be a chance for me to be stronger before this relationship after this one. The only time I get to see my bf is when he's off from work or I'm done with classes for the day.And when I'm off on a date with my boyfriend I'd hear my friends talking crap about me saying, ';Where's Marie?'; 2nd friend: ';She's probably with her boyfriend *rolls her eyes*'; And that pisses me off because when I ask them how's there day so far when I'm with them and decided not to be with my boyfriend for few days they give me cold answer and make fun of me saying, ';Why all of a sudden you weak make up?'; ';Just to look pretty for your bf?'; Geez. You think they grow up after graduating high school by now. Sometimes I ask my friends if they want to visit me at my home so it'd be eaiser for me to hang out and have conversation. And then they strike a stuck up attitude saying, ';No way! I don't want to see you two make out like a wild animal.'; What the hell. I know to respect my friend's not to make out in front of them. I told my younger sister about this and she said that they were never your friends in the first place.They always blab out your problems, make fun of you when they shouldn't, backstab you when you needed a friend. punched you in the face with rude response.
I figure since I only have two years left until I graduate at CC school I should focus on what's important and not be so close with them. What do you think?How do you balance boyfriend vs. your friends?
You have answered your own question. Yes, just do what yo have to do and don't worry about someone else's problem or drama. Focus!How do you balance boyfriend vs. your friends?
ur sis is totally right
talk to them about this, maybe they dont like your boyfriend and think he's bad for you? maybe they are jealous? there are many reasons..
but to me this sounds like jealousy, you should listen to your sister, these are not good friends to be around, you should find some friends that treat you like a proper friend should and yeah you should focus on the important things in life, studies etc..
You have an easy solution, they are getting too butt hurt about you having a boyfriend... they are just jealous. But never tell them that they are. Just ignore that kind of behavior and hang out with your sister more.
Siblings make the best friends and they stick around ya know?
Also you can come on Yahoo Answers more and help people with relationship problems hahaha
you need to find better friends. you should listen to your little sister... were right most of the time lol
if u give him what he wants when he tryna beat then its all good. he won't care. becuz he know he can get it at any time. that's just me though
I figure since I only have two years left until I graduate at CC school I should focus on what's important and not be so close with them. What do you think?How do you balance boyfriend vs. your friends?
You have answered your own question. Yes, just do what yo have to do and don't worry about someone else's problem or drama. Focus!How do you balance boyfriend vs. your friends?
ur sis is totally right
talk to them about this, maybe they dont like your boyfriend and think he's bad for you? maybe they are jealous? there are many reasons..
but to me this sounds like jealousy, you should listen to your sister, these are not good friends to be around, you should find some friends that treat you like a proper friend should and yeah you should focus on the important things in life, studies etc..
You have an easy solution, they are getting too butt hurt about you having a boyfriend... they are just jealous. But never tell them that they are. Just ignore that kind of behavior and hang out with your sister more.
Siblings make the best friends and they stick around ya know?
Also you can come on Yahoo Answers more and help people with relationship problems hahaha
you need to find better friends. you should listen to your little sister... were right most of the time lol
if u give him what he wants when he tryna beat then its all good. he won't care. becuz he know he can get it at any time. that's just me though
How do you make your ex jealous?
my boyfriend broke up with me for no good reason. he had a ';feeling';. i dont fully understand that but w/e. anyways, i dont really want him back (i have my eyes on another guy) i just want to make him jealous. any ideas, suggestions? stupid question i know but im DYING to know the answer!!!!How do you make your ex jealous?
You can always date this guy you had your eye on but in my experience, making another guy jealous always end badly. Usually when a girl try to get another guy jealous, well... they're doing it because they want them back.
You should move on! Date that other guy, forget about your ex boyfriend, and trust me, the rest (his jealously) will follow but you probably won't even care by then! :)How do you make your ex jealous?
Worse thing to do....don't make a guy jealous. They know you're going to do that, they expect it. What gets to them the mooooost is act as if it doesn't bother you. If they see that you're not affected by losing him (even if you are, just don't show it), it will bother him the most. Guys lose confidence when they realize they don't have a girl under their control %26amp; as dumb as it sounds, you shooting right after another guy still shows this guy that he has control on you because he knows you want to get back at him. But if you slowly do want to get involved with this new guy, do it slowly because if you don't, you'll lose him too. He'll catch onto what you're doing. Never use someone.... good luck to you!
i am ExACTLY 100% like you right now.
depends on him though; if he still has feelings for you then when you hang around other guys it should make him feel jealous. try flirting with other guys when hes around, or ignore him. when he tries to say hi to you, give him a nod but try to make it seem youre uninterested.
if hes totally over you, then its prolly unlikely youre going to make him jealous.
he probably wont care if he broke up with you
dont waste your time, enjoy your love life or lust life.
if you want to try to make him jealous though... be happy, genuinly happy, this falls into the same category as going on with your love life i guess.
Start talking to this new guy a lot more infront of your ex boyfriend and become really friendly around him e.g. hug him, kiss etc...
Dont contact him at all and go for the other guy . He might think you are taking it hard cause he broke up with you and when he sees you are not sweating it . Thats enough
make him jealouis
You shouldn't play games. Happiness is the best revenge.
You can always date this guy you had your eye on but in my experience, making another guy jealous always end badly. Usually when a girl try to get another guy jealous, well... they're doing it because they want them back.
You should move on! Date that other guy, forget about your ex boyfriend, and trust me, the rest (his jealously) will follow but you probably won't even care by then! :)How do you make your ex jealous?
Worse thing to do....don't make a guy jealous. They know you're going to do that, they expect it. What gets to them the mooooost is act as if it doesn't bother you. If they see that you're not affected by losing him (even if you are, just don't show it), it will bother him the most. Guys lose confidence when they realize they don't have a girl under their control %26amp; as dumb as it sounds, you shooting right after another guy still shows this guy that he has control on you because he knows you want to get back at him. But if you slowly do want to get involved with this new guy, do it slowly because if you don't, you'll lose him too. He'll catch onto what you're doing. Never use someone.... good luck to you!
i am ExACTLY 100% like you right now.
depends on him though; if he still has feelings for you then when you hang around other guys it should make him feel jealous. try flirting with other guys when hes around, or ignore him. when he tries to say hi to you, give him a nod but try to make it seem youre uninterested.
if hes totally over you, then its prolly unlikely youre going to make him jealous.
he probably wont care if he broke up with you
dont waste your time, enjoy your love life or lust life.
if you want to try to make him jealous though... be happy, genuinly happy, this falls into the same category as going on with your love life i guess.
Start talking to this new guy a lot more infront of your ex boyfriend and become really friendly around him e.g. hug him, kiss etc...
Dont contact him at all and go for the other guy . He might think you are taking it hard cause he broke up with you and when he sees you are not sweating it . Thats enough
make him jealouis
You shouldn't play games. Happiness is the best revenge.
Have this ever happened to you?, aren't you tired? how do you handle this?
well the problem here is that everytime you go to pick up your girlfiriend on a date to her house she say's to wait a little bit because she's making up, i don't blame them because of that, but then the father of your girlfriend wants to have a men to men talk with you, have it ever happened to you, something like that happend to me, i mean it would be good the first time, but when it happens up to twice it sucks, do you imagine that talk about the feelings and all of that ashaming crap, why do parents like to have that talk?, its annoying for both, and don't they realize we may have that talk before with other parents of other girlfriends?
To Girls: If you had started a new relationship with someone and if you had a father like that, please hurry getting ready to go out, don't make your boyfriend wait, it's very embarassing to have that talk to in the end broke up and start a new relation and have that talk over and over again, so please don't torture us with thatHave this ever happened to you?, aren't you tired? how do you handle this?
You will probably have the same talk with the guy that your little girl is dating too. I know it sucks but parents are concerned about their kids. Especially fathers when it comes to their daughter because think about it, they were your age too and they know how guys think. If you don't want to wait, than come a little later every time you have a date with your girl. Or tell her that you are very punctual and expect for her to be the same as well.
Good luckHave this ever happened to you?, aren't you tired? how do you handle this?
I would be so embarrassed if my dad ever did that!
My, my...aren't you selfish! Give the guy a break...and be glad that the young woman has a Dad who cares!!!! You will be standing in his shoes some day and I will be looking down from heaven and GRINNING!
i wouldn't let my dad do that!
i would feel bad.! :(
Dude I made them honk the horn and I was waiting at the door to prevent that crap.
i just prevent that, i would feel embarrassed if my dad did that
Ha! That's totally classic. Almost every dad does that, and he knows it's embarassing for you. You have a few choices here. The first choice is to act really smug, like you're too smart for him. It will totally piss him off, and he'll never do it to you again. The con of that is that he may not like you afterward. The other choice is to do the ';Yes, sir. No, sir, I'd never hurt your daughter. . . '; thing. Agree with every word out of his mouth, even if he says something directly offensive to you, like ';You're not good enough for my daughter.'; You'll win him over immediately. Con: He'll think you're his *****.
When you have your own kids someday, you'll understand.
Well her Dad wants you to remember his face later in the date and when you are a Dad you will be doing the same thing if you love your little girl.
To Girls: If you had started a new relationship with someone and if you had a father like that, please hurry getting ready to go out, don't make your boyfriend wait, it's very embarassing to have that talk to in the end broke up and start a new relation and have that talk over and over again, so please don't torture us with thatHave this ever happened to you?, aren't you tired? how do you handle this?
You will probably have the same talk with the guy that your little girl is dating too. I know it sucks but parents are concerned about their kids. Especially fathers when it comes to their daughter because think about it, they were your age too and they know how guys think. If you don't want to wait, than come a little later every time you have a date with your girl. Or tell her that you are very punctual and expect for her to be the same as well.
Good luckHave this ever happened to you?, aren't you tired? how do you handle this?
I would be so embarrassed if my dad ever did that!
My, my...aren't you selfish! Give the guy a break...and be glad that the young woman has a Dad who cares!!!! You will be standing in his shoes some day and I will be looking down from heaven and GRINNING!
i wouldn't let my dad do that!
i would feel bad.! :(
Dude I made them honk the horn and I was waiting at the door to prevent that crap.
i just prevent that, i would feel embarrassed if my dad did that
Ha! That's totally classic. Almost every dad does that, and he knows it's embarassing for you. You have a few choices here. The first choice is to act really smug, like you're too smart for him. It will totally piss him off, and he'll never do it to you again. The con of that is that he may not like you afterward. The other choice is to do the ';Yes, sir. No, sir, I'd never hurt your daughter. . . '; thing. Agree with every word out of his mouth, even if he says something directly offensive to you, like ';You're not good enough for my daughter.'; You'll win him over immediately. Con: He'll think you're his *****.
When you have your own kids someday, you'll understand.
Well her Dad wants you to remember his face later in the date and when you are a Dad you will be doing the same thing if you love your little girl.
10 points! How can I make it up to my boyfriend?
Yesterday, my boyfriend went through my Answers account while I was out of my room for about an hour.
He did because sometimes I minimize the screen on here when he comes in the room because I'm afraid he'll freak out when I'm asking a question about something that may bother him.
When he told me, I got really upset that he would do that.
Another reason why he went through is because I'm having some issues with my first love, who broke up with me about a year ago because of distance. My first love admitted to still loving me, and that was a pretty painful time for me when I found that out, as well as my current boyfriend when he found out because he was afraid of not having a girlfriend the next day, as he told me.
I really want to show my boyfriend that I chose him over my first love for a reason - because he's perfect for me and because I love him with all of my heart! :)
How can I do that?
And be real with your answers, please.10 points! How can I make it up to my boyfriend?
He should respect your 'secret garden'. Personally I hate when someone opens my bag or my email before asking permission. I try to resist myself to this kind unhealthy curiosity.... unless there is OBVIOUSLY something that smells fishy.10 points! How can I make it up to my boyfriend?
I don't think you should make it up to him. He violated your trust by going through something private. That should be the issue here. If he's so insecure, then it won't last anyway. Tell him flat out what you said here...that you're upset that he did that, that he has no reason not to trust you and that you love him and want to be with him. If he's still having issues, tell him it's not going to work out.
just tell him straight up
shoe him that you are happy to be with him and happy not to be with your first love
guys like it when their girlfriends are sweet to them
so maybe cook him his favorite meal and let him relax and maybe go somewhere that he wants to go to or let him hang out with his friends with out you calling him
be extra affectionate like kiss him more with passion and hug him extra tight just show him that you love him.....
Stop asking for relationship advice on Yahoo Answers. Honestly, it's not the most reliable source of information. Go outside; think for yourself.
He did because sometimes I minimize the screen on here when he comes in the room because I'm afraid he'll freak out when I'm asking a question about something that may bother him.
When he told me, I got really upset that he would do that.
Another reason why he went through is because I'm having some issues with my first love, who broke up with me about a year ago because of distance. My first love admitted to still loving me, and that was a pretty painful time for me when I found that out, as well as my current boyfriend when he found out because he was afraid of not having a girlfriend the next day, as he told me.
I really want to show my boyfriend that I chose him over my first love for a reason - because he's perfect for me and because I love him with all of my heart! :)
How can I do that?
And be real with your answers, please.10 points! How can I make it up to my boyfriend?
He should respect your 'secret garden'. Personally I hate when someone opens my bag or my email before asking permission. I try to resist myself to this kind unhealthy curiosity.... unless there is OBVIOUSLY something that smells fishy.10 points! How can I make it up to my boyfriend?
I don't think you should make it up to him. He violated your trust by going through something private. That should be the issue here. If he's so insecure, then it won't last anyway. Tell him flat out what you said here...that you're upset that he did that, that he has no reason not to trust you and that you love him and want to be with him. If he's still having issues, tell him it's not going to work out.
just tell him straight up
shoe him that you are happy to be with him and happy not to be with your first love
guys like it when their girlfriends are sweet to them
so maybe cook him his favorite meal and let him relax and maybe go somewhere that he wants to go to or let him hang out with his friends with out you calling him
be extra affectionate like kiss him more with passion and hug him extra tight just show him that you love him.....
Stop asking for relationship advice on Yahoo Answers. Honestly, it's not the most reliable source of information. Go outside; think for yourself.
After how long of dating should your boyfriend ask you to marry him?
and after how long should you get worried when he doesnt pop the question?i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we've been living together for most of those 3 years.Yes we've had our ups and downs but we always solve pur problems and to tell you the truth eveytime we have a fight(not physical) after we make up our love for each other grows even more.I'm 23yrs and just finished college and he is 30 years and is a doctor.I've got no doubt that he is the one i went to spent the rest of my life with.I've had more than my share of fun and i've dated quite a few guys before i met him so i know i'm ready for the marriage.After how long of dating should your boyfriend ask you to marry him?
You need to talk to him... casually bring it up... It may be that he just isnt ready, or he's afraid of rejection. He may be worried that you arent ready. So you need to make sure that he knows where you stand...
He will ask when he is ready.... and there isnt a way to speed that up...
And for the record, it is okay for a girl to ask her boyfriend... the guy doesnt always have to take the plunge firstAfter how long of dating should your boyfriend ask you to marry him?
i met my wife one day, proposed the next and we were married a month later.So the answer is, ther is no specific time. It is whenever he is sure that you are the one.Incidentally, we have been married 48 years . So Good Luck.
Have you guys even previously discussed marriage? If not, perhaps you should to make sure you are even on the same page. You've been living together since the beginning of the relationship? I can't see how that's a good thing. I was with my ex (boyfriend) for 10 1/2 years and we were never even engaged. My fiance and I just got engaged after 15 months of dating (we were together nearly 10 months before moving in together). And honestly, I think while your boyfriend may not be, you are likely too young yet.
I'd say where you've just finished college, you guys are in a position to talk about it. I'm sure he's wanted you to finish your education before bringing it up, and guys do tend to get comfortable in their relationships. You need to find out how HE feels about marriage, just because you're ready doesn't mean he is, especially if he's still in a residency program, he may be waiting until he's got a more steady (and less stressful) job before taking the next step in your relationship.
Talk with him, and get his thoughts.
Usually a mature couple knows after two or three years of seriously dating.
However, since you're shacking up, he's probably quite comfortable with things as they are...
With your ages and length of your relationship, I would say that you are at the time when its acceptable to consider marriage. You should talk to him and get his thoughts on the subject and tell him yours. Its time to be honest with him though, I wouldnt recommned beating around the bush, most men cant take hints very well and if you try to be coy I think you may wind up being disappointed.
Good luck!
You have already asked this question. It is a violation to ask more than once.
I asked my boyfriend to marry me after a year of living together. If you're ready for marriage, ask him. Of course, don't pressure him to marry you, but there's nothing wrong with asking!
Men and women who say that women shouldn't ask because that puts pressure on men are so stupid! What do they think that men asking women doesn't put pressure on women? Traditionally, maybe not because women needed marriage to survive. These days?? Definite pressure. I think that's why there are so many divorces. Women are still expected to throw away all thought for a romantic idea. It's very intelligent of you to be thinking about marriage realistically because it's not all romance.
Talk to your boyfriend openly, honestly and realistically about marriage and see what he says.
If you haven't discussed marriage before, he may not even be considering it as an option. Most guys prefer ';living with'; a woman rather than getting married, if they can get away with it. In my opinion, he should have already proposed. Most of the time when a guy proposes way too soon (under a year), he's a controlling jerk who is an abuser. So, it's good you're over the ';I have to propose fast before I hit her'; time limit. But anything over 2 years living together is too long.
Has he mentioned marriage at all? If he hasn't, then chances are he's not after marriage with you. Guys don't like their gals to sit them down and say, ';We need to talk.'; So, whatever you say, don't say that! And they also get scared when you say, ';Honey, I've been thinking...'; You'll have to be creative to get him to talk about your relationship. Relationships are a female thing. Every guy I know would love to be in the position your man is in now.
The sites below offer information about marriage and what you can do to bring it up. Most guys run when a woman brings it up, so be careful.
Good luck.
it all depends on him. you should try talking to him, he may not want to be married. some men have problems with making a commitment like that even if they are in a serious relationship. just sit down with him one of these nights and calmly explain to him that you would like to get married soon, or at least think about getting married. fing out how he feels.
This is a case of classic ';Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?';. It wasn't very long after I moved in with my boyfriend that the little ';I love you'; text messages and ';When we get married...'; talks went right out the window. Of course, there's the occasional reassurance that he does plan on marrying me one day. But, like you, I find myself wondering just when that day will be!
The one thing I have learned is to not pressure him about it. Just about ALL guys are immediately turned off by the thought of marriage because they have so many people breathing down their necks about it. For example, when some friends of ours got married back in April, the mother of the groom simply refused to leave my boyfriend alone with ';When are you two going to tie the knot?'; questions. Although he considers the groom and his mother a couple of his best friends, he finally walked away and avoided her after the millionth time she asked. Just be patient and bring up the subject every once in a while. And when I say ';every once in a while';, I mean MAYBE once a month.
I'm sure you already know that you would have been engaged a long time ago if you hadn't moved in with him. The only way to force the issue is to tell him that you will be moving out soon if he doesn't want to marry you. He will either get a wake-up call or let you go.
It depends on a lot of factors. You should let your boyfriend know how you feel about this. If you have not talked about it, he may not know how you feel.
Hello there!
I would say after you have had some rough experiences and survived with nothing but love to fall back on but from what you have said, you seem to have been dating long enough to know each other so I believe you two should be ready! Good luck!
Mine asked after 6 months. After three years of dating you should know where his head is on the issue, if you don't ask. You need to discuss your future, don't pop off with ';so when are we getting married'; but make sure you open a line of communication about where you are headed, make sure he is the kind of man who wants marriage.
It is perfectly acceptable for you to ask him to marry you, in fact I think you should have by now. If he starts giving you excuses then you may want to reconsider the amount of time you spend with him and move out. It may be that he has already accepted that the two of you will marry eventually. Maybe he thinks he has to offer the perfect engagement (like those wedding tv shows would have him believe). You don't know until you ask. But don't wait for him forever, if he won't give you what you want then you need to move on to someone who will.
You need to talk to him... casually bring it up... It may be that he just isnt ready, or he's afraid of rejection. He may be worried that you arent ready. So you need to make sure that he knows where you stand...
He will ask when he is ready.... and there isnt a way to speed that up...
And for the record, it is okay for a girl to ask her boyfriend... the guy doesnt always have to take the plunge firstAfter how long of dating should your boyfriend ask you to marry him?
i met my wife one day, proposed the next and we were married a month later.So the answer is, ther is no specific time. It is whenever he is sure that you are the one.Incidentally, we have been married 48 years . So Good Luck.
Have you guys even previously discussed marriage? If not, perhaps you should to make sure you are even on the same page. You've been living together since the beginning of the relationship? I can't see how that's a good thing. I was with my ex (boyfriend) for 10 1/2 years and we were never even engaged. My fiance and I just got engaged after 15 months of dating (we were together nearly 10 months before moving in together). And honestly, I think while your boyfriend may not be, you are likely too young yet.
I'd say where you've just finished college, you guys are in a position to talk about it. I'm sure he's wanted you to finish your education before bringing it up, and guys do tend to get comfortable in their relationships. You need to find out how HE feels about marriage, just because you're ready doesn't mean he is, especially if he's still in a residency program, he may be waiting until he's got a more steady (and less stressful) job before taking the next step in your relationship.
Talk with him, and get his thoughts.
Usually a mature couple knows after two or three years of seriously dating.
However, since you're shacking up, he's probably quite comfortable with things as they are...
With your ages and length of your relationship, I would say that you are at the time when its acceptable to consider marriage. You should talk to him and get his thoughts on the subject and tell him yours. Its time to be honest with him though, I wouldnt recommned beating around the bush, most men cant take hints very well and if you try to be coy I think you may wind up being disappointed.
Good luck!
You have already asked this question. It is a violation to ask more than once.
I asked my boyfriend to marry me after a year of living together. If you're ready for marriage, ask him. Of course, don't pressure him to marry you, but there's nothing wrong with asking!
Men and women who say that women shouldn't ask because that puts pressure on men are so stupid! What do they think that men asking women doesn't put pressure on women? Traditionally, maybe not because women needed marriage to survive. These days?? Definite pressure. I think that's why there are so many divorces. Women are still expected to throw away all thought for a romantic idea. It's very intelligent of you to be thinking about marriage realistically because it's not all romance.
Talk to your boyfriend openly, honestly and realistically about marriage and see what he says.
If you haven't discussed marriage before, he may not even be considering it as an option. Most guys prefer ';living with'; a woman rather than getting married, if they can get away with it. In my opinion, he should have already proposed. Most of the time when a guy proposes way too soon (under a year), he's a controlling jerk who is an abuser. So, it's good you're over the ';I have to propose fast before I hit her'; time limit. But anything over 2 years living together is too long.
Has he mentioned marriage at all? If he hasn't, then chances are he's not after marriage with you. Guys don't like their gals to sit them down and say, ';We need to talk.'; So, whatever you say, don't say that! And they also get scared when you say, ';Honey, I've been thinking...'; You'll have to be creative to get him to talk about your relationship. Relationships are a female thing. Every guy I know would love to be in the position your man is in now.
The sites below offer information about marriage and what you can do to bring it up. Most guys run when a woman brings it up, so be careful.
Good luck.
it all depends on him. you should try talking to him, he may not want to be married. some men have problems with making a commitment like that even if they are in a serious relationship. just sit down with him one of these nights and calmly explain to him that you would like to get married soon, or at least think about getting married. fing out how he feels.
This is a case of classic ';Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?';. It wasn't very long after I moved in with my boyfriend that the little ';I love you'; text messages and ';When we get married...'; talks went right out the window. Of course, there's the occasional reassurance that he does plan on marrying me one day. But, like you, I find myself wondering just when that day will be!
The one thing I have learned is to not pressure him about it. Just about ALL guys are immediately turned off by the thought of marriage because they have so many people breathing down their necks about it. For example, when some friends of ours got married back in April, the mother of the groom simply refused to leave my boyfriend alone with ';When are you two going to tie the knot?'; questions. Although he considers the groom and his mother a couple of his best friends, he finally walked away and avoided her after the millionth time she asked. Just be patient and bring up the subject every once in a while. And when I say ';every once in a while';, I mean MAYBE once a month.
I'm sure you already know that you would have been engaged a long time ago if you hadn't moved in with him. The only way to force the issue is to tell him that you will be moving out soon if he doesn't want to marry you. He will either get a wake-up call or let you go.
It depends on a lot of factors. You should let your boyfriend know how you feel about this. If you have not talked about it, he may not know how you feel.
Hello there!
I would say after you have had some rough experiences and survived with nothing but love to fall back on but from what you have said, you seem to have been dating long enough to know each other so I believe you two should be ready! Good luck!
Mine asked after 6 months. After three years of dating you should know where his head is on the issue, if you don't ask. You need to discuss your future, don't pop off with ';so when are we getting married'; but make sure you open a line of communication about where you are headed, make sure he is the kind of man who wants marriage.
It is perfectly acceptable for you to ask him to marry you, in fact I think you should have by now. If he starts giving you excuses then you may want to reconsider the amount of time you spend with him and move out. It may be that he has already accepted that the two of you will marry eventually. Maybe he thinks he has to offer the perfect engagement (like those wedding tv shows would have him believe). You don't know until you ask. But don't wait for him forever, if he won't give you what you want then you need to move on to someone who will.
What would you do .....with your boyfriend -?
im always doing everything to make my boyfriend happy, but every time i make a mistake he makes it seem as if its the worst crime in the world by having this stupid attitude or grudge and not to mention acting like a lil b!@tch .weve been together for a long time now, and i dont wanna end the relationship....but just learn to quit giving in so much and being so sensitive. WHAT SHOULD I DO? It takes a million sorry's just to make him realize how stupid the situation is and then whenever he gets mad over stupid crap he acts like he wants to break up and then when he's over it he say's that he doesnt mean it. im just getting tired of making up for every little thing but then if i dont then things will only get worse.... What would you do .....with your boyfriend -?
I think you deserve better than this. Bring this up with your boyfriend, and if he is still stubborn, I think you have to re-evaluate your relationship.cash advance loans hair dryer
I think you deserve better than this. Bring this up with your boyfriend, and if he is still stubborn, I think you have to re-evaluate your relationship.
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