Making your boyfriend admit hes wrong...is it possible?

well me and my boyfriend of almost three years have been having issues lately.there came a time in our relationship when we broke up because he wouldnt get a job.i got with someone else. and he of course rubs that in my face. he to went out with someone else. but says that it isnt the same or wrong because he didnt have sex with the girl yet i did with my ex.there other things too like when we get in fights.we try saying that we wont bring up the past anymore btu usually hes the one donig so.he messes up all the time.so do i but i admit my faults and there less that his.btu the thing is that everything i do is always wrong and crossing the line and what ever he does isnt. how do i amke him understand that he does mess up and lot???Making your boyfriend admit hes wrong...is it possible?
I dont feel bad for him! He didn't want to be a man and get a job so you found a REAL man! Sorry but anyone who doesn't want to get a job is a loser.Making your boyfriend admit hes wrong...is it possible?
You can never move forward if you are continually looking back, if you want to make this work and i think you should, you might consider on just agreeing to disagree and taking the higher road of just saying you know what, i love you and am willing to look forward beyond the past to create a brighter future with you. You will never force him to see his own errors he needs to want to, and want to change, so make him want to.......
Yes, it is possible, but only if he chooses to be A: reasonable, B: honest and C: wants things to improve between you.





If things happened 'after you'd split up', then so be it. You don't owe each other anything by way of an explanation and it is neither the business of the other what happened following a split.





If he is not mature enough to understand, then you are trying to flog a horse that is dead.





Sash.
Personally I think you shouldn't be with someone that doesn't trust you are keeps the past in the past. He needs to understand that people make mistakes and whether or not he didn't get further doesn't give him the right to hold any grudge. Talk it out and if it continues leave him he apparently doesn't know a good thing when he has it.
issues are always going to happen.


you both need to talk about this or else it wont get solved.


well it wont really get solved at all because the guy wont get over


it and always bring it up trust. even though its the past they never get over it so just


try to resolve things the best way you can.
You can't make him do anything. All you can do is tell him how you feel and hope that he understands and tries to change. If he won't, then you need to decide if it's time to move on. If he really cared, he would make an effort to be more considerate of your feelings.
what's the point of making him realize that he is an idiot.


Only you need to realize that so that you can make the choice to move on from him.
Why do you care you arent going out with him? Also maybe if you **** him again with some crazy fun stuff mixed in he will most likely forget the whole thing.
your both unhappy move on
Don't do that! Don't try to make him feel bad.


Talk to him. Tell him you don't want to talk about the past anymore. I've been in that situation before and me and my boyfriend would somehow bring up our past in every fight and we only made the fight worse by doing so.


Get it over with already. Explain to him how you feel and tell him what he's doing wrong and let him do the same. When you sort that out, you won't bring up the past anymore r hold any grudges against each other.