How do you get your boyfriend to open up more?

When he seems to almost be like a closed book? He tells me he's in love with me, we live togethar, he enjoys spending time with me, it just feels different from when we first met. I kind of feel like I have to put most of the effort out in the relationship. I even always have to make the first move for sex, it's very rare that he makes the first move. What gives? If he loves me so much, why doesn't he show it more?How do you get your boyfriend to open up more?
you guys have entered that comfort phase of your relationship . it happens to everyone. you need to spice things p a little. cook a gourmet dinner and have a large bouquet of flowers sitting in the middle of the table with you sitting there naked when he gets home from work. afterwords talk to him about it let him know what he is going to be missing if he doenst straighten up.How do you get your boyfriend to open up more?
Usually if the woman has to initiate sex most of the time then that means the man is gay and hiding behind the woman(the ';beard';). Maybe he is a closed book because he is afraid of you or anyone else finding out his true sexuality.
take a break from him, go to another town may be for a while..


let him realise that he s missin somethin in his life like somethin very special as you are...


Guys always take it for granted when u become more sweet to them and they only realise your importance once u give them a break... if he really loves you he ll come after you and with the realisation that he will never be so numb again...
People will do what ever you allow them to do. By always puttin the effort in and always makin the first move he expects you to do this all the time. Step back a bit, let him see what its like not to have your full attention. spend some more time with ur friends and enjoyin ur own interests. When he sees that you're not gonna run after him all the time he'll realise what it might be like to be without you.


If it doesnt change his mind and he's happy to keep goin in a half hearted relationship then I'm afraid to say he's lost interest. Find yourself a man who will put as much time and effort into you as you do to them.
must admit i never made the first move sex wise my hubby always instigate it but that what works for us odviously it dont for you .........i would personally feel abit unwanted i agree thou you cant change ppl or mould them to be what you want .........and yes maybe he does think your wrapped round his fingers id get tough pull ya weight or out .
A lot of men are like that. You can't change people - so either let him be him - or move on.