If you broke up with your boyfriend and received this text from him, what would you think?

Just to give a little background info, we were together for five years and we broke up last week and I moved out. I tried for almost a year and a half to fix our problems, which ranged from him not wanting to help me do anything around the house to him never wanting to have sex with me to him getting jealous if I made new friends. He is just so immature and I kept waiting in vain for him to grow up. I tried to talk to him literally what seemed like a hundred times, and his responses were always immature and defensive remarks. Suddenly once I have moved out he keeps begging me to come back, and he has begun to make up this story that he has had this self image problem for his whole life, which is why he doesn't want to have sex. This is the latest in what I consider creepy and weird text messages:








';All i have been doing is laying in bed hating myself. Crying and thinking about ho much i want my life to be with you. You think asking me to change is unfair to me but if it leads me to a happier life for the both of us together then i don't see it as unfair. i want us to grow together. confidence and communication is something i think we can work on together. i think about how we were first naked aroubd each other and you constantly hid your body. i had to help you get out of that. Ironically later it just turned into me who hates his reflection and it poisoned your life and my life and our life together. Do you think we could work something out where we live together? I'll sleep on the futon and our relationship can be platonic. This way we can work things out together and have each other for support. Before I had you as a friend, i had no real friends. No one truly liked me or understood me. This is how I know you really are my best friend and my one and only. It doesn't have to be right away. You can take some time to yourself, but I think the sooner we can work on your confidence the sooner you can be confidently independent. The sooner I get ok with myself, the sooner our problem can disappear. The sooner we tear down our communication block the sooner we can understand each other. And with open communication I don't think our relationship will ever each a low like this again.';If you broke up with your boyfriend and received this text from him, what would you think?
This guy seems insecure and unstable, and it's not your job to fix him. If you want to try again, wait until he is functional and make sure he sorts HIMSELF out or he'll never truly change. Have some space from him and see how you feel in a few weeks/months rather than making a decision right away. Also, phone or face-to-face would be more sincere than a text so don't read too much into it.


If it's meant to be, it will certainly work. If it's not, you'll move on.If you broke up with your boyfriend and received this text from him, what would you think?
that text is just a big load of crap. I'm sure if you go out with him again you will just go back to your old ways, so don't do it.
honestly, he is a better person, and is really really sincere of him. it isn't creepy at all... maybe he's scared of not being a virgin
He needs emotional support, but he does sound sorry...


It's your call.





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i say give him another chance.he seems truly sorry.if he messes up again,just say please dont text or call me its over over
Do not get back together!!!!!! Guys never change or at least none of the guys me and my friends have dated they are all the same.
Thats not creepy, he sounds like he really loves you, give him another chance.
If you really care for him try talking to him about what he feels and then tell him what you feel. Communication is key! asking someone else who doesnt know him, doesnt know what he means will not make you understand him or his text message to you. Sorry but they dont know what he is feeling. Yes it does sound kinda of confussing but I see that he is willing to try to work out your relationship and doesnt want to lose you. Its up to you to decide what you want. Or should I ask you this. What do you feel? Ask yourself that question. and then when you figure out what you want talk to him. Ask him if you two can find a place to talk in person. Not on the phone and talk about both of your feelings. and give him your anwser. Hope my advice will come to good use. :)
You tried to fix him for 1 1/2 years.


What makes you think he's going to change?


You are not his mother and it is not your job to fix him.


DO NOT MOVE BACK IN WITH HIM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Don't ever go into his house, for any reason and don't ever let him into your house.


He'll put on his ';I can't live without you'; face and you'll be stuck with him for another 5 sucky years.
I don't think any guy would go through the trouble of writing something like that unless he was sincere. Maybe try counseling together. He obviously has some attachment issues that he needs to work through. If you love him, then work through them together.
Only you know him and can tell if he is truly sincere. If you honestly want him back and are willing to give him another chance then I say go for it. But only if you feel he is sincere and that he has changed.
i would give him another chance, and tell him that the next time he acts stupid then thats it, its your call and your decision and after that he cant complain because he jacked it up. You know him and how he is, it sounds sincere to me, not creepy at all but people can fake things well. There is nothing to lose in giving some1 a second chance but i wouldnt move back in, not yet, try staying apart and dating, move back into the relationship slowly, dont just jump back into old problems, work through them and get closer as you do... communication is key, always remember that.


God Bless


Hope it works out