You need to stop contact for a bit. Change the game. I read an article about this on ezine. Here's the link:How to make your ex want you back?
Of course he still flirts with you and the reason is that, unfortunately, he knows that he can do basically very little, and have an easy hookup. How can he miss you if you are always there waiting for him in his shadows? Do not text him. I don't care if he is saying sweet things back to you. He knows what buttons to push to keep you dangling along. You need to have some hobbies and interests and make yourself interesting and self-sufficient without him. Only THEN might he think ';hmmm, why is she so happy now? what's going on with her??'; and then he MIGHT want you back. BUT, why would you go back to him at that point? Seriously.....think about it. Think about why you broke up. What is so different with the both of you since you've been apart that you'd both want to get back with each other??? I think you just miss the familiarity (like most do after breakups) ---- when you really think about it, I think you'll see you don't really miss him! Don't cry over anyone who is not crying over you.
First of all, there is nothing you can do to change his mind about the way he feels about getting back with you. Only he can make the decision to whether he wants to be with you again.
In the meantime, just be yourself, and be his friend.
Do not seduce him because you will later regret it.
Just because he flirts with you doesn't mean that he wants you back. He sounds like an Alpha Male... the flirtatious type who tries to get what he knows you may easily give up. Be careful.
Always remember the reason you broke up from the beginning. Your remembering is your protection.
Thats not good for you hun. Your still attatched emotionally and physically.
It seems that he at this point may be either using you for the fun of it, or he cant let go of you.
If you two are hooking up and flirting, you two in teqnicality should be together.
Your aim should not be making him ';want you back';.
Talk to him about it.
My friend is in the exact same situation. Of you want to get him back you have to stop hooking up with him and minimize seeing him. Make him no that to ge you he has to commit and can't just use you. Good luck :)
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he is not worth your time. ditch the loser before its to late. he left you in the first place. So in the end it will NEVER and i mean NEVER work between you two. You can find better.... Lets hope
You can't make anyone do anything. You either just have to hope he starts to like you again, or move on.
I'd suggest telling him how you feel, but that's really all you can do.
well since you you've done all of that, what you just said, one of you two need to ask the question, because obviously you both are still interested in each other!
you will NEVER EVER get him back if you keep hooking up with him .
whats the point in being with you as a gf if your willing to do it with no commitment
why pay for milk when you can have the cow for free
None of my ex-gfs wud want me back, they all hate my guts, so I don't really know what to reply.
But Answer mines please.
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be mature about the situation, listen, be understanding, move on, hell want you back. my ex did ;)
You dont need to make him want you back, theres a reason you broke up in the first place, move on and let your ex remain as is.....your ex
if he doesn't wanna then you can't make him
don't flirt nor hook up with him. be a chase and see what happens
sex.
stop texting him. flirt with other guys. if he calls or texts u dont' answer for a few minutes. jokingly mke fun of him.
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